"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB5 and less & SOCIAL PROOF

dr0pxx

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What up guys

How much social proof do you get talking with girls I would say "hb"5 and less. This can only help correct? This shows that you are a social and friendly. On the other hand, factor she is a hb3. maybe she is real fat, I am talking pairs of titties. Is it still better to talk than to not? I relaly have no interest it talking to those girls that much, or old ladies for that matter.

Do you guys chat up EVERY girl you can for the enviornment your given? Does it help your social proof alot?

what you guys think
dr0p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexParadox

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whenever im around not too great looking girls, i allways have my conscience screaming to me: You can do better then this.
i generally like to keep at least a light friendship with all girls, since girls talk and if they talk highly of you its a big positive
 

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How much social proof do you get talking with girls I would say "hb"5 and less.
Pi times hb# divided by the number of people in the group.

Ie (3.14 x hb10)/2 = 16.2

Therefore your social proof will have gone up by 16.2 points.
 

dr0pxx

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I see wha tyou guys are saying

Using this an example. Gym. Target behind fat girl. THe fat girl is on a bike and the target is on the treadmill behind her. I have seen the girl ocassionaly @ work but thats it. Do I do more than exchange hellos with her in front of the target to build social proof?

I understand you guys are saying basically talk to all of the girls if for atleast practice. Social proof is such a weird concept.

thx 4 the replies

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Le Parisien

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Seeing the kind of questions you are asking, I do believe that it's good for you to start by talking to the average 5s and below.:whistle: :crackup:

Once you get more practice, confidence and social awareness, you will know exactly what to do. And you will also realize how bad/dumb your question was and especially your thoughts on the topic.:D

:rolleyes: A little hint:
Being seen hitting on fatties or ugly girls decreases your social value exponentially in th eyes of other guys and moreso in the eyes of the hot girls.

However, being seen friendly with everybody makes you look good.
 

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You want social proof? Walk up to the hottest girl in the place and game her.
 

dr0pxx

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Le Parisien: You seem to be a very positive person

Derek Flint: you are right, that is what I should do, I will only gain social proof w/ hot girls by talking & socializing w/ hot girls.

I understand, and yes I am new

thx guys
Frenchy, where is your white flag?

dr0p
 

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Le Parisien said:
Seeing the kind of questions you are asking, I do believe that it's good for you to start by talking to the average 5s and below.:whistle: :crackup:

Once you get more practice, confidence and social awareness, you will know exactly what to do. And you will also realize how bad/dumb your question was and especially your thoughts on the topic.:D

:rolleyes: A little hint:
Being seen hitting on fatties or ugly girls decreases your social value exponentially in th eyes of other guys and moreso in the eyes of the hot girls.

However, being seen friendly with everybody makes you look good.
Who really cares what the other guys think, it is the HB7-10s who you need to be veiwed as the Prize by, to do this you need to be seen as being desired by the majority of the other HB7-10s within your environment.
Every pretty girl I approach always asks me if other girls like me, I obviously say yes, as it is of extreme importance to them.
Us dudes may not always know which other dudes are the hottest ones, but I can tell you that every HB7-10 knows exactly which other babes are at the top of the beauty scale.
For this reason only ever build freindships with the most beautiful woman or else you won't get anywhere with the hottest girls. :mad:
 
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