"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB5 and less & SOCIAL PROOF

dr0pxx

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What up guys

How much social proof do you get talking with girls I would say "hb"5 and less. This can only help correct? This shows that you are a social and friendly. On the other hand, factor she is a hb3. maybe she is real fat, I am talking pairs of titties. Is it still better to talk than to not? I relaly have no interest it talking to those girls that much, or old ladies for that matter.

Do you guys chat up EVERY girl you can for the enviornment your given? Does it help your social proof alot?

what you guys think
dr0p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexParadox

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whenever im around not too great looking girls, i allways have my conscience screaming to me: You can do better then this.
i generally like to keep at least a light friendship with all girls, since girls talk and if they talk highly of you its a big positive
 

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How much social proof do you get talking with girls I would say "hb"5 and less.
Pi times hb# divided by the number of people in the group.

Ie (3.14 x hb10)/2 = 16.2

Therefore your social proof will have gone up by 16.2 points.
 

dr0pxx

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I see wha tyou guys are saying

Using this an example. Gym. Target behind fat girl. THe fat girl is on a bike and the target is on the treadmill behind her. I have seen the girl ocassionaly @ work but thats it. Do I do more than exchange hellos with her in front of the target to build social proof?

I understand you guys are saying basically talk to all of the girls if for atleast practice. Social proof is such a weird concept.

thx 4 the replies

dr0p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Le Parisien

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Seeing the kind of questions you are asking, I do believe that it's good for you to start by talking to the average 5s and below.:whistle: :crackup:

Once you get more practice, confidence and social awareness, you will know exactly what to do. And you will also realize how bad/dumb your question was and especially your thoughts on the topic.:D

:rolleyes: A little hint:
Being seen hitting on fatties or ugly girls decreases your social value exponentially in th eyes of other guys and moreso in the eyes of the hot girls.

However, being seen friendly with everybody makes you look good.
 

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You want social proof? Walk up to the hottest girl in the place and game her.
 

dr0pxx

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Le Parisien: You seem to be a very positive person

Derek Flint: you are right, that is what I should do, I will only gain social proof w/ hot girls by talking & socializing w/ hot girls.

I understand, and yes I am new

thx guys
Frenchy, where is your white flag?

dr0p
 

PigAdlemPimp

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Le Parisien said:
Seeing the kind of questions you are asking, I do believe that it's good for you to start by talking to the average 5s and below.:whistle: :crackup:

Once you get more practice, confidence and social awareness, you will know exactly what to do. And you will also realize how bad/dumb your question was and especially your thoughts on the topic.:D

:rolleyes: A little hint:
Being seen hitting on fatties or ugly girls decreases your social value exponentially in th eyes of other guys and moreso in the eyes of the hot girls.

However, being seen friendly with everybody makes you look good.
Who really cares what the other guys think, it is the HB7-10s who you need to be veiwed as the Prize by, to do this you need to be seen as being desired by the majority of the other HB7-10s within your environment.
Every pretty girl I approach always asks me if other girls like me, I obviously say yes, as it is of extreme importance to them.
Us dudes may not always know which other dudes are the hottest ones, but I can tell you that every HB7-10 knows exactly which other babes are at the top of the beauty scale.
For this reason only ever build freindships with the most beautiful woman or else you won't get anywhere with the hottest girls. :mad:
 
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