"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB10's and other stories.

I saw/picked up a HB10 last night jim...

  • however I'm talking rubbish as HB10's can't exist!

    Votes: 9 56.3%
  • she was my perfect woman, my life is complete. Bye.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • she was WAAAAY hotter than that girl we all agreed was a 9, so if she isn't a 10 what was she!?

    Votes: 5 31.3%

  • Total voters
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jimhardy

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**Warning PEDANTIC post**

I'm not a big user of the 1-10 scale, i'm far more digital (if looking at her turns me on she's hot 8) ), but it is highly useful in communication with other guys. However I think people are starting to misuse it.
I've read several stories, FRs and advice posts over the past few weeks which contain encounters with HB10s. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but I believed that a HB10 is theoretical, much like the HB1. The way I see it, if you see a HB10 your scale doesn't work as the HB10 is the perfect women, the one woman you measure all others against.

In closing, stop giving advice/seeing/picking up HB10s kids, you can't.

jIm
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I believe that a hb10 is different to everyone, but I also believe that everyone can find that one woman who, to them, is a hb10.

Of course, once that happens, they don't need this site anymore, because they and their woman should be happy and dare I say, complete.

Just my $.02
 

Skel

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Well I often yell at my friends for saying shes a dime!

THere is no such thing as perfect and no such thing as a one because we all know if we see a really ugly girl that is a one, that there is always an uglier girl. So the scale should be set 2-9 :p
 

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HB10 = a girl that almost any guy you ask will say is absolutely stunning to look at. With HB9 and 8's there are always some guys who will not find them that attractive.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vibe

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I am having lunch with an HB10 tomorrow. Why is she an HB10? Because not only is she stunning, she has a personality to match it. She's charismatic, funny, and gorgeous. That's MY HB10.

~Vibe~
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by Vibe
I am having lunch with an HB10 tomorrow. Why is she an HB10? Because not only is she stunning, she has a personality to match it. She's charismatic, funny, and gorgeous. That's MY HB10.

~Vibe~
So to you, she is perfect--not almost perfect, right?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by jimhardy
correct me if I'm wrong, but I believed that a HB10 is theoretical, much like the HB1.
Im pretty sure i know a HB1 :p
 

MR_PERFECT

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I've seen a ten version of every body part. But the only real HB10 I've seen was some girl at the mall with her bf. Everyone watched this girl as she walked from store to store. I don't mean just guys, I'm talking about women, men and children. To me, a 10 is so hot she can have any man she wants - the rich, the famous, even a straight woman.
 

Smooth Player 056

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I dont think its THAT big of a deal if u say thier 10's or 9's.....we get the point that she is hot...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i dont belive in hb 10s any, hmmm maybe one day i will see one....maybe not
 

RaWBLooD

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wrong thread.
 

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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Almost does not = perfect, so she can not be a 10.
10 doesnt = perfect
10 = the highest level of attractiveness
 
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