"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HB10's and other stories.

I saw/picked up a HB10 last night jim...

  • however I'm talking rubbish as HB10's can't exist!

    Votes: 9 56.3%
  • she was my perfect woman, my life is complete. Bye.

    Votes: 2 12.5%
  • she was WAAAAY hotter than that girl we all agreed was a 9, so if she isn't a 10 what was she!?

    Votes: 5 31.3%

  • Total voters
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jimhardy

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**Warning PEDANTIC post**

I'm not a big user of the 1-10 scale, i'm far more digital (if looking at her turns me on she's hot 8) ), but it is highly useful in communication with other guys. However I think people are starting to misuse it.
I've read several stories, FRs and advice posts over the past few weeks which contain encounters with HB10s. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but I believed that a HB10 is theoretical, much like the HB1. The way I see it, if you see a HB10 your scale doesn't work as the HB10 is the perfect women, the one woman you measure all others against.

In closing, stop giving advice/seeing/picking up HB10s kids, you can't.

jIm
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I believe that a hb10 is different to everyone, but I also believe that everyone can find that one woman who, to them, is a hb10.

Of course, once that happens, they don't need this site anymore, because they and their woman should be happy and dare I say, complete.

Just my $.02
 

Skel

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Well I often yell at my friends for saying shes a dime!

THere is no such thing as perfect and no such thing as a one because we all know if we see a really ugly girl that is a one, that there is always an uglier girl. So the scale should be set 2-9 :p
 

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HB10 = a girl that almost any guy you ask will say is absolutely stunning to look at. With HB9 and 8's there are always some guys who will not find them that attractive.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vibe

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I am having lunch with an HB10 tomorrow. Why is she an HB10? Because not only is she stunning, she has a personality to match it. She's charismatic, funny, and gorgeous. That's MY HB10.

~Vibe~
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by Vibe
I am having lunch with an HB10 tomorrow. Why is she an HB10? Because not only is she stunning, she has a personality to match it. She's charismatic, funny, and gorgeous. That's MY HB10.

~Vibe~
So to you, she is perfect--not almost perfect, right?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by jimhardy
correct me if I'm wrong, but I believed that a HB10 is theoretical, much like the HB1.
Im pretty sure i know a HB1 :p
 

MR_PERFECT

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I've seen a ten version of every body part. But the only real HB10 I've seen was some girl at the mall with her bf. Everyone watched this girl as she walked from store to store. I don't mean just guys, I'm talking about women, men and children. To me, a 10 is so hot she can have any man she wants - the rich, the famous, even a straight woman.
 

Smooth Player 056

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I dont think its THAT big of a deal if u say thier 10's or 9's.....we get the point that she is hot...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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S-lemond

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i dont belive in hb 10s any, hmmm maybe one day i will see one....maybe not
 

RaWBLooD

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wrong thread.
 

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Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
Almost does not = perfect, so she can not be a 10.
10 doesnt = perfect
10 = the highest level of attractiveness
 
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