"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB10's...Can we really say that there is such a thing? A PERFECT woman.
"Perfect is boring..." Pooks own words, directed at us, the men.
But possibly, this could apply to the female race too. If we expected our women to be perfect, to ALWAYS look extremely hot, and always up for sex etc, aren't we asking abit much?
Just a thought, no saying to lower your standards, gents. Just to keep them realistic and too not expect perfection from your woman.

"to be human is beautiful."

Ben :):up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SilverSonnet,
I don't think there's a perfect woman, but there are plenty of woman I would consider perfect for ME. Also, I find using the rating scale tends to be problematic; one man's HB6 is another man's HB9.5. There was a thread somewhere back that had a funny title; it basically said if you kept holding out for that perfect, IMAGINARY HB10 that you'd be looking at porn for the rest of your life.
 

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I'm one of those guys who never rates a girl a 10. The HB rating is overratred because everyone has different views about what number corresponds to what level of hotness, and then chuck on their preferances onto that and people will very rarely agree on a 10.

Although some guys have nothing against calling a girl a 10, and it doesn't affect them at all, so good on 'em.
 

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IMO a 10 is hottest girl you have ever seen. And she is perfect to you. There is a girl in one of my classes that I would consider a 10. Would everybody consider her a 10? Probably not. All that matters is that she is a 10 to me. Unfortunately in that class she has 3-4 orbiters so I'm not the only guy who thinks she's really hot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Generally the term perfection in reality isn't real! It doesn't exist. Perfection doesn't have form or factor.

The ideal of perfection also changes! It evolves and adapts.

You come to realize this when you actually sleep with a girls you consider 10's, they transform to some beast of nature, drooling, grunting and making all manners of noises un-ladylike. And when on all fours, you realize the basis of your ideal of perfection doesn't match the reality you exist in when you view her from behind.

Your view of perfection then shall change, that her vertical impression doesn't match when she's horizontal.

Perfection to me, is how someone is horizontally, if you get what i mean. Even then there is no perfection.
 

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Maxtro the problem is with that mindset you are coming from scarcity from abundance, I bet the girl isn't as right for you as you think, has some obvious flaws but you are overlooking the bad and projecting a perfect 10 onto her. if you only have 1 perfect 10 I bet you fck it up with her. You place too much value on the outcome which makes you needy. So unless you have great inner game (in which case it wouldn't happen) or fantastic outer game I would advise against guys giving perfect 10s if they only give it to 1 or 2 girls they know.

It's helped me ;)
 

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SinJester said:
Maxtro the problem is with that mindset you are coming from scarcity from abundance, I bet the girl isn't as right for you as you think, has some obvious flaws but you are overlooking the bad and projecting a perfect 10 onto her. if you only have 1 perfect 10 I bet you fck it up with her. You place too much value on the outcome which makes you needy. So unless you have great inner game (in which case it wouldn't happen) or fantastic outer game I would advise against guys giving perfect 10s if they only give it to 1 or 2 girls they know.

It's helped me ;)
Heh, scarcity and abundance. I just started watching The Blueprint Decoded I've only watched up to DVD 3 though.

Anyways here is how I rationalized my idea of a 10. Say somebody asks you to describe your ideal woman, based on looks alone. Naturally if she is your ideal woman she would be a 10 to you. She would have value to you.

My ideal woman is 5'3-5'7, weight proportioned, has an athletic but not muscular body, straight and silky blond hair that goes to the bottom of her shoulder blades, blue eyes, very attractive but more cute than sexy and between a C and a D cup.

She has all of that stuff, I know there is much more to her that I haven't seen yet. I don't know that much about her as a person but from what I know about her she's very friendly, maybe a bit to nice as she talks to anybody who would talk to her and I've never seen her act like a bitch. But she may be if I get to know her. But that's not even important.

As for being needy and too focused on the outcome.Those are things I need to work on. I try and hide my neediness. I think I do a good job as I don't give her a lot of attention. I'm not desperate to talk to her.

Being focused on the outcome. If I was to get her for a girlfriend or a fuck buddy it would completely change my life, my reality. My whole self-image would be transformed. But, I know that the odds of actually getting her are slim to none so I put in no effort. My inner and outer game are both poor so I won't even bother when the chance of rejection is 99.9% Eh, I might ask her out the last day of school so I don't have to deal with her anymore.
 

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You guys are all over-complicating it...
A ten(10) is a dimepiece - a girl that is smoking hot, and EVERY MAN will at least find her attractive. Meaning no one will say "ugly". A ten is someone that if a guy says shes ugly, he must be gay or blind.

long story short, Kim Kardashian is a ten
Russian TV host Anfisa Chehova is a ten
there's of course alot more...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJVladdy said:
You guys are all over-complicating it...
A ten(10) is a dimepiece - a girl that is smoking hot, and EVERY MAN will at least find her attractive. Meaning no one will say "ugly". A ten is someone that if a guy says shes ugly, he must be gay or blind.

long story short, Kim Kardashian is a ten
Russian TV host Anfisa Chehova is a ten
there's of course alot more...
Most guys would agree Hayden Pannettiere is a 10 as well.

Remember, Beauty is mostly objective (notice the perfect nose and balanced facial features)

http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/database/haydenpanettiere/hayden_panettiere300.jpg
 

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I had to Google her, then I was like, "Oh, she's Claire." Here is another pic of her. Click Me
For some reason there is something about her face that keeps her from being a 10 to me. But I'd still hit that.

But yes beauty is objective, or Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everybody has their opinion of what their version of the 10 is.
 

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I always found this lady very attractive in her glory days. No one can deny that awesome body, the face you gotta like though. I always liked it, but then again, I'm just a sucker for blue eyes.

Haiden Panriette isn't that hot to me really, she also doesn't have a great figure. No hips/ass.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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snow, the face you gotta like... but the body looks like someone took a 10 year old boy and slapped some silicone implants on him.
 

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snowdog said:
I always found this lady very attractive in her glory days. No one can deny that awesome body, the face you gotta like though. I always liked it, but then again, I'm just a sucker for blue eyes.

Haiden Panriette isn't that hot to me really, she also doesn't have a great figure. No hips/ass.
Most people in this world prefer blue or light colored eyes because brown or hazel is not the most attractive color.

However some blue eyes are ugly because they always looked blood shot in certain people.
 

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I had to Google her, then I was like, "Oh, she's Claire." Here is another pic of her. Click Me
For some reason there is something about her face that keeps her from being a 10 to me. But I'd still hit that.
But yes beauty is objective, or Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everybody has their opinion of what their version of the 10 is.
In my opinion, she is definitely in the Top 5% in the looks department.

I mean come on, you won't really too many girls of that level of attractiveness unless you walk around New York, Chicago, LA etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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