SinJester said:
Maxtro the problem is with that mindset you are coming from scarcity from abundance, I bet the girl isn't as right for you as you think, has some obvious flaws but you are overlooking the bad and projecting a perfect 10 onto her. if you only have 1 perfect 10 I bet you fck it up with her. You place too much value on the outcome which makes you needy. So unless you have great inner game (in which case it wouldn't happen) or fantastic outer game I would advise against guys giving perfect 10s if they only give it to 1 or 2 girls they know.
It's helped me
Heh, scarcity and abundance. I just started watching The Blueprint Decoded I've only watched up to DVD 3 though.
Anyways here is how I rationalized my idea of a 10. Say somebody asks you to describe your ideal woman, based on looks alone. Naturally if she is your ideal woman she would be a 10 to you. She would have value to you.
My ideal woman is 5'3-5'7, weight proportioned, has an athletic but not muscular body, straight and silky blond hair that goes to the bottom of her shoulder blades, blue eyes, very attractive but more cute than sexy and between a C and a D cup.
She has all of that stuff, I know there is much more to her that I haven't seen
yet. I don't know that much about her as a person but from what I know about her she's very friendly, maybe a bit to nice as she talks to anybody who would talk to her and I've never seen her act like a bi
tch. But she may be if I get to know her. But that's not even important.
As for being needy and too focused on the outcome.Those are things I need to work on. I try and hide my neediness. I think I do a good job as I don't give her a lot of attention. I'm not desperate to talk to her.
Being focused on the outcome. If I was to get her for a girlfriend or a fu
ck buddy it would completely change my life, my reality. My whole self-image would be transformed.
But, I know that the odds of actually getting her are slim to none so I put in no effort. My inner and outer game are both poor so I won't even bother when the chance of rejection is 99.9% Eh, I might ask her out the last day of school so I don't have to deal with her anymore.