"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok i need some extreme help here !

There's this chick named jessica that is SUPER HOt and she's in magazines and all this stuff but the thing is that she's VERY approachable and down to earth. She's really into cars (supras) which i am too and i was just wondering how i would try and get a number close out of her and possibly a date. I talk to her once in awhile at car meets and stuff but never for more than like 2 minutes. The thing is that she always says that line "No guys ever ask me out" bla bla ... the thing all extremely hot girls say that i just ignore so it doesn't look like i'm sweating them but is this the right thing?I once tried the negative approach saying she looked alright which was a big mistake and i probably ruined it there ?!?! I'll finish with some pics.... Any advice would be GOlden as i really hope to try and advance with this !






 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She looks like a God-fearing girl. I say be extra nice and timid around her... that'll make her feel comfortable. :rolleyes:




On a serious note, 99% of the time, there is ONLY 1 way to handle a girl like this. Be a roughneck. Be aggressive. Man-handle her.
 

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The thing is that she always says that line "No guys ever ask me out"
Then you say: Thats fantastic! I guess you will be free to go with me to [insert activity here] on Thursday then?
 

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Despite her physical make-up; she's just a girl. She bleeds like you bleed, she shyts like you shyt, and she has her own issues just like you have your own issues. Immediately you're going to probably feel EVERY SINGLE flaw that you perceive in yourself fire-up in her presence and you're going to feel self-conscious until you see her for just a human being.

Treat her with respect, talk to her, have a conversation with her, let her know that you want to go out sometime. If she's into you, she will make it easy and accepted your invitation. If she isn't, nothing you could have said and done would have made her think otherwise. Be confortable, be aware, and be you.

Oh, and post more pics.

-Blitz
 

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.. sweeet jesus ..

It seems like you two know each other .. so .. just call her and say .. "Lets get together sometimes.. " If she says yeah .. then pick a time location blah .. do not hesitate ..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One thing I know about Supra groupies. They're easy. My personal favorite line is "I'll give you a ride but you aren't going to go anywhere."

:D
 

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
Despite her physical make-up; she's just a girl. She bleeds like you bleed, she shyts like you shyt, and she has her own issues just like you have your own issues. Immediately you're going to probably feel EVERY SINGLE flaw that you perceive in yourself fire-up in her presence and you're going to feel self-conscious until you see her for just a human being.

Treat her with respect, talk to her, have a conversation with her, let her know that you want to go out sometime. If she's into you, she will make it easy and accepted your invitation. If she isn't, nothing you could have said and done would have made her think otherwise. Be confortable, be aware, and be you.

Oh, and post more pics.

-Blitz
^ I agree. She's still a girl. Just like everyone else. You can land that. Pretend she has pimples on her face, or a big mole. Pretend she has yellow teeth. Imagine her taking a ****. It makes you realize she's like every other girl. You can do it!

We must have different tastes, I would have rated her an 8. With less clothes on she's a 9 :D

I prefer latinas. More curves and sexy accents ;)
 

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Originally posted by Gold Heart
^ I agree. She's still a girl. Just like everyone else. You can land that. Pretend she has pimples on her face, or a big mole. Pretend she has yellow teeth. Imagine her taking a ****. It makes you realize she's like every other girl. You can do it!

We must have different tastes, I would have rated her an 8. With less clothes on she's a 9 :D

I prefer latinas. More curves and sexy accents ;)
I dunno...

http://www.bartontwins.com/Gallery/Swimsuit/Original Files/swjes01.jpg

That's a pretty nice ass for a skinny white chick. ;)
 

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"I agree. She's still a girl. Just like everyone else. You can land that. Pretend she has pimples on her face, or a big mole. Pretend she has yellow teeth. Imagine her taking a ****. It makes you realize she's like every other girl. You can do it!"

Truth
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ya, she's hotter in person though....

The thing is she always has a crowd of guys around talking to her... should i just bust in the crowd and say "Hey" do some neg-hitting in the convo?
 

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I saw the pics....and yes....this girl is a tried and true knockout.

However, the reason why pursuing this girl is so difficult is because you're making it that way. Simple. You feel as if she has a great power over you because she has the ability to make your heart race and mouth water just by simply putting something sexy on and walking into a room.

But you cannot allow this ability that she has to make you feel as if she is the powerful one here. You need to treat her exactly like you would treat anybody else, because she is. She is human and is no better than you are. Remember that. Don't try and win her approval, assume that you've already gotten it. You said yourself that she was down to earth and nice, so she was obviously trying to get YOUR approval as well or she would have just blown you off.

You treat her EXACTLY like you would treat any other girl. This girl is used to getting special treatment because of her beauty. She's used to guys cracking under her beauty. Whatever you do, DON'T DO *ANYTHING* TO TRY TO IMPRESS HER, AND DO NOT MAKE ANY ASSUMPTIONS WHATSOEVER ABOUT HER JUST BECAUSE SHE'S BEAUTIFUL. Most guys here will tell you to neg hit her and stuff like that, but I highly highly advise you NOT to....you think she hasn't dealt with "****y" guys before? Because I'm here to tell you that she has, and she will smell your little "neg-hitting" agenda out QUICK. However, DO NOT treat her extra nice just because she's beautiful either. Do you not think that she's not dealt with cheesy losers who compliment her millions of times in a minute? Because she has.

No, you treat her as if she is just any other girl that you are interested in that needs to gain your respect. That means you have fun with her, but put your foot down when you have to. For instance, when you are together, just concentrate on having fun, NOTHING ELSE. If you call her up and invite her to spend time with you, and she gives you flack....you put your foot down AGAIN. TREAT HER AS IF YOU WOULD ANY OTHER GIRL. DO ABSOLUTELY *NOTHING* DIFFERENT. NOTHING.

Treat her with respect, but you must convey to her somehow that you deserve respect too, whether she's the good looking one in the relationship or not.
 

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wow this thread is making me look like a major AFC.... I wouldn't really give a **** if she turned me down because there's a million girls as hot as she is but i was just getting some opinions. The best thing of course is just to treat them normal so ill come back with my results here eventually. thanks fellas
 

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Your golden discovery

Wow, your girlfriend is sooooooo sexy. Now let me tell you right now, you need to stop all that you are doing and take a deep breath because you are about to advance to another level that some people don't ever go. You are way too excited. Just sit down right now, look up and smile at yourself, and say to yourself in your head "YES!!!!" You are very lucky to have the opportunity to explore her. Now lets think about something here, why doesn't she ever get dates?

I think because she makes every guy so excited when she talks to him that he goes on an emotional roller coaster. Remember that you are a Man. Don't be too excited, because this is just what was coming to you. And when you start talking to her remember that you should be trying new things. I think you’re main objective should be to learn and to experience. If you fail with her do not worry at all because there is plenty HB10's on their way to you. Once you associate yourself with this girl more of her kind will flock to you. So it really doesn’t matter if you fail with her, just be somewhat involved with her.

Now what do you think she's looking for? A Man. A Man isn't phased by a girl like this. But she is definitely very sexy. You deserve her, because you are very Manly and she is very womanly. She will test you to see if you are for real, just remember to be persistent. If she doesn't return your phone calls, don't fret because its just an obstacle she is throwing to you. If she flirts with other guys just take it with a smile because you will find that you can see right through her. She is flirting with those guys to try and affect YOU. And that's great, because when she's flirting with other guys she is thinking of YOU, meaning it will never go anywhere at least for that night and while your around. You need to sweep her off her feet, the only way you can do that is with your head screwed on tightly. Now go an experience this girl. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You both like 'Supras'!!! What else do you need to have in common? Go for it! Take her for a ride in your Supra to 'bluberry hill' and make out with her!!!
 

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dj supra: supz jessica? :) i was wondering... since you like supras n' stuff jus like me, we should go out or somin, want my number?

jessica- who are you faggot
 

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Originally posted by xomel
these pics are greatly photoshopped.
Yep. As are all model pics. She has a great body and an ok head. Nothing too special. Just another girl. Tell her you have a hole in your heart and you need to fill it! lol. Man, stop being a girl, she is just another chick. Ask her out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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