Georgepithyou
Banned
She's just trying to create drama, I would block her and move on
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That platonic friendship is greater than nothing at all, and it’s incredibly hard to discern the difference between a sexual relationship and a platonic one by just looking at someone unless it’s blatantly obvious based off say how a woman is laughing or smiling or whatever. But that’s relatively rare to just HAPPEN to find at the right moment. Being friendzoned is still better than being lnsidered a creep no matter how you put it.I am.
I’m not talking about whether or not “social proof” works or not. I know it can be effective. I’m just talking about circumstances where it doesn’t always work for a guy.
Think it through for a minute.
Generally speaking, social proof is effective because other women get a certain impression of a man who is with other attractive women.
What exactly leads to that impression? I can tell you that it is not simply because they share the same air by standing next to each other.
Women often have a tendency to want what other women have; what other women are interested in. They feed off of the interest other women are showing in that man.
When you have a woman who LJBFs you, does not flirt and is not working to set you up, you will not have a woman displaying the very interest in a man that other women glean off of, which is what “social proof” is supposed to do.
Women are not intrigued by a display of platonic friendship.
Don't forget how well tuned women are in covert communication. To women this stuff is very obvious, to a man it might not be as obvious if he's not very well tuned in this area so i'd argue that they know very fast what kind of interest the woman in question has for the man by millions of different cues.That platonic friendship is greater than nothing at all, and it’s incredibly hard to discern the difference between a sexual relationship and a platonic one by just looking at someone unless it’s blatantly obvious based off say how a woman is laughing or smiling or whatever. But that’s relatively rare to just HAPPEN to find at the right moment. Being friendzoned is still better than being lnsidered a creep no matter how you put it.
We can agree to disagree.
*Yawn*Don't forget how well tuned women are in covert communication. To women this stuff is very obvious, to a man it might not be as obvious if he's not very well tuned in this area so i'd argue that they know very fast what kind of interest the woman in question has for the man by millions of different cues.
But the point being, HOW does she know whether you ‘get nothing’ or not? If there’s a bunch of dudes who are standing around awkwardly somewhere, and you’re only guy with a group of friends who happens to have girls in said friendgroup, then (if all else is equal) your social status is immediately higher than all of those other guys even if the chick you are talking to has friendzoned you. Those dudes can continue thinking that they’re ‘more alpha’ than you while standing around awkwardly twiddling their thumbs while all the other women see you talking to a hot chick having a completely normal conversation. Like I said before:This is only true when a man usually gets nothing at all. I would hope no man would think like that.
I would even go so far to say that platonic relations with women can sometimes have the opposite effect of “social proof”. It can lead a woman to wonder why the female(s) the man is with don’t “want” him. They can wonder what’s wrong rather than what’s right.
Women who are of higher social caliber might be able to see through some of the stuff or note that you may have even ‘friendzoned’ but only if you’re a wuss like I said. If you aren’t a wuss, no, they’ll actually look at you as a real dude regardless, not to mention, ou liekly would never have gotten friendzoned to begin with.For the majority of guys, it’ll up their social status a lot. Especially in the eyes of women who are of lower status/looks than the women said man is with.
Whatever it is, it's definitely NOT this.So, do you feel A trying to be a supportive friend in her own way