Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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hb value and flirting tippy

sexualchocolate

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If capable in the powers of paradigm shifting, changing the way you view things, best bet is stop putting value on the hb rating.

A hb8-10 what we strive for, should hold no more power over us than an ugly.

If you see a silver dollar lying on the ground, you pick it up, whether its shiny or tarnished. It still spends.

The reason hb's hold so much value is b/c they assume the power to crush us or make us look dam cool in front of our friends.
Though the lay is usually no better.

If a hb shows you attention, playfully laugh her off like you would a 5 or 6. She will respond if you know how to flirt.

Women love the hunt just as much as we do, but they like to work for it. Learn to be a passive flirt, not wanna of these c*cks that say the nastiest possible line trying to be funny.

Hey. flirting is fun, it lets us get out our sexual frustation. Just know your bounderies with a woman b/c as soon as you cross a line that is not ready to be crossed, you'll be backpeddling.

Just a few things i've noticed out in the field.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a simple but profound post....

as soon as you put that hb a number, your mentally pedestalzing her

couldn't agree more...
 

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Wise post, though I would love to see a little more elaboration and/or examples.

Didn't mean to sound like an English professor.
 

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Wise post, though I would love to see a little more elaboration and/or examples.
Yes, like what is "passive flirting"? What do you mean by "playfully laugh her off" but still flirt? I know teasing can be flirting, is that all you're saying, tease her?

A hb8-10 what we strive for, should hold no more power over us than an ugly.
Whether you label her with the rating or not, it's pretty obvious that a HB8 or 9 holds a lot more value than a HB4 or 5. To pretend otherwise seems like denial, although I can see that if you can convince yourself they're the same that mindset would be helpful.
 
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