"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hb value and flirting tippy

sexualchocolate

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If capable in the powers of paradigm shifting, changing the way you view things, best bet is stop putting value on the hb rating.

A hb8-10 what we strive for, should hold no more power over us than an ugly.

If you see a silver dollar lying on the ground, you pick it up, whether its shiny or tarnished. It still spends.

The reason hb's hold so much value is b/c they assume the power to crush us or make us look dam cool in front of our friends.
Though the lay is usually no better.

If a hb shows you attention, playfully laugh her off like you would a 5 or 6. She will respond if you know how to flirt.

Women love the hunt just as much as we do, but they like to work for it. Learn to be a passive flirt, not wanna of these c*cks that say the nastiest possible line trying to be funny.

Hey. flirting is fun, it lets us get out our sexual frustation. Just know your bounderies with a woman b/c as soon as you cross a line that is not ready to be crossed, you'll be backpeddling.

Just a few things i've noticed out in the field.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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a simple but profound post....

as soon as you put that hb a number, your mentally pedestalzing her

couldn't agree more...
 

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Wise post, though I would love to see a little more elaboration and/or examples.

Didn't mean to sound like an English professor.
 

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Wise post, though I would love to see a little more elaboration and/or examples.
Yes, like what is "passive flirting"? What do you mean by "playfully laugh her off" but still flirt? I know teasing can be flirting, is that all you're saying, tease her?

A hb8-10 what we strive for, should hold no more power over us than an ugly.
Whether you label her with the rating or not, it's pretty obvious that a HB8 or 9 holds a lot more value than a HB4 or 5. To pretend otherwise seems like denial, although I can see that if you can convince yourself they're the same that mindset would be helpful.
 
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