"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HB Swedish waitress...

Zazzydem

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I was at a cafe with my friend in gaming mode when this blonde beauty asks for my order and serves me. We get chatting and I bust her on her accent and stuff. Says shes from Sweden. Later on when she gets our bill I suggest we do a drink together sometime which she responds with 'maybe' then I push things further and she tells me to write my number on the bill.

My friend suggests I give her a meeting point on it, so I write 'meet me at xx at so and so time. Call me on xx-xx-xx-xx if you cant make it' She picks up the bill and returns to the bar/till and reads it, and coming back to bring our change she smiles.

Meeting day....

I dont expect her to show, because afterall she never agreed, but im in the area and arrive 1hr 30mins late. Im sure she wouldve called if she did show to see where I am. Chicks usually do.

Later that evening I get a SMS from her ' Hi , im sorry, I forgot about the meet..My sister is here fom sweden, thats why. Take care..(her name/place of work)'

Not sure if I should continue it, maybe go back to the cafe and game her more or is this a subtle hint from her. Asking for another meet might get the same outcome!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well she sent sms. she could not do that. so it means she likes you bu propably you are not in her type. still you should go to caffe, acting like noithng happened and try to date her and convince that you are cool
 

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youve got nothing to lose, man. go visit her with some friends. occasionally talk to her.
 
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