"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB Swedish waitress...

Zazzydem

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I was at a cafe with my friend in gaming mode when this blonde beauty asks for my order and serves me. We get chatting and I bust her on her accent and stuff. Says shes from Sweden. Later on when she gets our bill I suggest we do a drink together sometime which she responds with 'maybe' then I push things further and she tells me to write my number on the bill.

My friend suggests I give her a meeting point on it, so I write 'meet me at xx at so and so time. Call me on xx-xx-xx-xx if you cant make it' She picks up the bill and returns to the bar/till and reads it, and coming back to bring our change she smiles.

Meeting day....

I dont expect her to show, because afterall she never agreed, but im in the area and arrive 1hr 30mins late. Im sure she wouldve called if she did show to see where I am. Chicks usually do.

Later that evening I get a SMS from her ' Hi , im sorry, I forgot about the meet..My sister is here fom sweden, thats why. Take care..(her name/place of work)'

Not sure if I should continue it, maybe go back to the cafe and game her more or is this a subtle hint from her. Asking for another meet might get the same outcome!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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well she sent sms. she could not do that. so it means she likes you bu propably you are not in her type. still you should go to caffe, acting like noithng happened and try to date her and convince that you are cool
 

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youve got nothing to lose, man. go visit her with some friends. occasionally talk to her.
 
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