"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB Swedish waitress...

Zazzydem

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I was at a cafe with my friend in gaming mode when this blonde beauty asks for my order and serves me. We get chatting and I bust her on her accent and stuff. Says shes from Sweden. Later on when she gets our bill I suggest we do a drink together sometime which she responds with 'maybe' then I push things further and she tells me to write my number on the bill.

My friend suggests I give her a meeting point on it, so I write 'meet me at xx at so and so time. Call me on xx-xx-xx-xx if you cant make it' She picks up the bill and returns to the bar/till and reads it, and coming back to bring our change she smiles.

Meeting day....

I dont expect her to show, because afterall she never agreed, but im in the area and arrive 1hr 30mins late. Im sure she wouldve called if she did show to see where I am. Chicks usually do.

Later that evening I get a SMS from her ' Hi , im sorry, I forgot about the meet..My sister is here fom sweden, thats why. Take care..(her name/place of work)'

Not sure if I should continue it, maybe go back to the cafe and game her more or is this a subtle hint from her. Asking for another meet might get the same outcome!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well she sent sms. she could not do that. so it means she likes you bu propably you are not in her type. still you should go to caffe, acting like noithng happened and try to date her and convince that you are cool
 

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youve got nothing to lose, man. go visit her with some friends. occasionally talk to her.
 
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