"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB showed 100% interest then 0% in same night

wonderer

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Met a girl recently and knew she was attracted to me. Got texting in the evening and got her and her friend to meet me and my friend for a drink as we all happened to be in town.

Ended up going to a club, she was all over me with huge interest. I kiss closed, and the interest was still rocket high. She suddenly flipped and started to show no interest whatsoever and was dancing/talking to other guys in front of me.

My reaction was to act not bothered, and indifferent, also to go talk to other girls. She never really came back round that night but said hello when we crossed paths. She then start texting me at the end of the night when everyone had got home...

Two questions:

1. Did I act in the right way facing this situation, or should I have done something different?

2. Is she just a slag?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SgtSplacker

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Women are like that man.

Rule #1: Strike while the irons hot!
 

Yo'Mama

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To be honest she sounds like an utter cvnt. Who needs that, bro?
 

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If you're in a club, get over the "I need to be here for a certain amount of time" mentality. If it's on and it's 12:30. Leave. If it's on and it's 1:50. Leave. Hell if you just walked through the door and you went out to find a chick and she turns you on. Leave. The longer you wait once you're with a girl, the more chance her attraction levels will end up fluctuating.

Also, if you're making out with a chick earlier on in the night and leave her, I'd bet you that she'll make out with a second guy that night because she's already half aroused and looking for something. That something is you but you walked off, get your butt back over there, isolate her, tease her, get that sexual tension and once you hit that high point(takes a while to work out where that is) walk her out of the club. Once she's already peaked, it'll be harder to get her to leave.
 

wonderer

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Thanks guys, I see that I should have pushed to leave. Ill know for next time. I guess I didn't expect her to flip like that. Women are odd.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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foreverAFC

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i once saw a chick do this do to just about every single guy at a party, they are c0ck teases who get off on the attention
 
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