"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB showed 100% interest then 0% in same night

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Met a girl recently and knew she was attracted to me. Got texting in the evening and got her and her friend to meet me and my friend for a drink as we all happened to be in town.

Ended up going to a club, she was all over me with huge interest. I kiss closed, and the interest was still rocket high. She suddenly flipped and started to show no interest whatsoever and was dancing/talking to other guys in front of me.

My reaction was to act not bothered, and indifferent, also to go talk to other girls. She never really came back round that night but said hello when we crossed paths. She then start texting me at the end of the night when everyone had got home...

Two questions:

1. Did I act in the right way facing this situation, or should I have done something different?

2. Is she just a slag?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women are like that man.

Rule #1: Strike while the irons hot!
 
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Yo'Mama

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To be honest she sounds like an utter cvnt. Who needs that, bro?
 
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If you're in a club, get over the "I need to be here for a certain amount of time" mentality. If it's on and it's 12:30. Leave. If it's on and it's 1:50. Leave. Hell if you just walked through the door and you went out to find a chick and she turns you on. Leave. The longer you wait once you're with a girl, the more chance her attraction levels will end up fluctuating.

Also, if you're making out with a chick earlier on in the night and leave her, I'd bet you that she'll make out with a second guy that night because she's already half aroused and looking for something. That something is you but you walked off, get your butt back over there, isolate her, tease her, get that sexual tension and once you hit that high point(takes a while to work out where that is) walk her out of the club. Once she's already peaked, it'll be harder to get her to leave.
 
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Thanks guys, I see that I should have pushed to leave. Ill know for next time. I guess I didn't expect her to flip like that. Women are odd.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i once saw a chick do this do to just about every single guy at a party, they are c0ck teases who get off on the attention
 
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