"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HB lies to me and says shes sick

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I had invited HB out to an event last night. She said she was sick and that she was gonna stay home. Next thing I know I check facebook and she was tagged as out with her friends last night.

How do I play this off?

Can you trust such a trecherious woman?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hypnotic24 said:
Defriend from facebook and find another.
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Im all fairness perhaps the event I invited her to she really didnt want to go, but she could have said that it would be understandable.
 
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Mauser96 said:
IF you are sure the photo was taken last night, I would send her a message or comment on the tagged photo, saying "Guess you began feeling better!!"

Then I would do nothing.........absolute silence....and see what happens.
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hmmm.

what about just liking her friends post tag instead?

or just pretending it never happened?
 
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gspshields2 said:
hmmm.

what about just liking her friends post tag instead?

or just pretending it never happened?
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How about just handing your balls over to her?

If this woman did in fact go out last night and you continue to pursue her, she'll see you as the biggest chump on the planet. So will we. As well everybody should.

Try to find out if that photo was in fact from the night you asked her to go out. If it is.... "like" the photo and defriend and never contact her again.

Go meet other women.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gspshields2 said:
hmmm.

what about just liking her friends post tag instead?

or just pretending it never happened?
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Have you learned anything from this site over the past year? Get off, you are wasting bandwidth
 
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gspshields2 said:
Im all fairness perhaps the event I invited her to she really didnt want to go, but she could have said that it would be understandable.
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In all fairness, she told you she was sick when she probably wasn't (if she was in fact out with said friends).

Forget about her and move on
 
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If this was a first date, I would just delete her from my life and not say a word. Its not like you know this person, therefore you don't care.

If it was a 2nd or 3rd date, saying something on her pic like "guess you must have magical healing powers...gotta get me some of those". And don't talk to her again unless she shows up at your door on her knees and her mouth open.
 
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I wouldn't comment on the photo, or 'like' a comment. Cutoff contact and walk away if you want to keep your pride and dignity. I've gone the other way in this sort of situation before and you will only come off poorly IMO.
 
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Go ghost aka no contact. That's the best thing that is for you.

Case closed. Get out of my court. :yawn:
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't go no contact.

Completely cut off the b!tch. Why deal with a liar? and if she was that interested in you then she would have been with you.
 
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gspshields2 said:
I had invited HB out to an event last night. She said she was sick and that she was gonna stay home. Next thing I know I check facebook and she was tagged as out with her friends last night.

How do I play this off?

Can you trust such a trecherious woman?
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People lie when it doesn't feel safe to tell the truth. So you might want to ask yourself if the way you've been relating to her makes truth safe.

I'm ok with people lying to me about most things. Lies are everywhere - if you're this shocked, you really need to work on your intuition. It's just everywhere, and quite disgusting.

I would use this as a sign that you haven't been relating to her correctly. This is an opportunity to build trust with her. For example, I would simply say that "I'm sad you didn't come because I am excited to become better friends with you. I hope you had a beautiful evening. I noticed on FB that you decided to go out later, I hope you had a fun time."

It is not our place to judge women's decisions. If you're so stupid that you don't allow women to change their minds, then prepare to be lied to constantly until you wise up. Never demand reasons why people do things. This is asking to be lied to. Nobody knows for certain why we do anything, it just feels right and we go for it. Women are especially intuitive - doing things simply because it feels right. If you ask for reasons, you'll regret it.

Not sure why you'd cut a women off for your stupidity. Women need our help to stop lying. But you're not helping anything and you're going to be alone.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Don't go no contact.

Completely cut off the b!tch. Why deal with a liar? and if she was that interested in you then she would have been with you.
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this

she is natrually weeding herself out and showing you she is low quality and you are still trying to figure out how to get her. then if youg ot her, and she cheated on you 3 months later you will come here *****ing about how women are mean and heartless when she was trying to show you her true colors at the beginning.

women will weed themselves out with their behavior if you let them
 
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