"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's dry as anything here, concerning girls.
So I'm going through my phonebook, and bam, I find this hot hot hot girl I used to know, she was pretty great, sheused to have a bf I think, but I don't know now. I'm thinking of calling her up, asking her out, nothing to lose, any ideas? I'm pretty sure she digged me, and her sister superdigged me (you know, 13 year old crushes but hey :p ), any tips for this situation?
Last time I spoke to her was about 2 - 2.5 months ago. We met in this school class throughout the year, I made her laugh, and I'm sure she has some nice memories of me. Nothing happened between us, sadly, I was pretty AFC about things back then (throughout the year I mean).
Help a brother out, guys :)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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anyone? :p
last bump ill do.
 
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well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
 
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Originally posted by defiancy
well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
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Wow, someone has no balls. MrS, since you haven't talked to this girl for a while use that as a basis for when you call her, say that you found her name and wanted to see how she was doing, some BS like that, and get a date out of her. If that doesn't happen, oh well, at least you tried and know that it was not meant to be. But if she accepts, just hope that she hasn't grown ugly since you last met her.
 
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My thoughts exactly, NYC Dude, thanks for the post, I think I'll call her soon, heehee.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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