"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB I used to know.

MrS

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It's dry as anything here, concerning girls.
So I'm going through my phonebook, and bam, I find this hot hot hot girl I used to know, she was pretty great, sheused to have a bf I think, but I don't know now. I'm thinking of calling her up, asking her out, nothing to lose, any ideas? I'm pretty sure she digged me, and her sister superdigged me (you know, 13 year old crushes but hey :p ), any tips for this situation?
Last time I spoke to her was about 2 - 2.5 months ago. We met in this school class throughout the year, I made her laugh, and I'm sure she has some nice memories of me. Nothing happened between us, sadly, I was pretty AFC about things back then (throughout the year I mean).
Help a brother out, guys :)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrS

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anyone? :p
last bump ill do.
 

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well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
 

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Originally posted by defiancy
well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
Wow, someone has no balls. MrS, since you haven't talked to this girl for a while use that as a basis for when you call her, say that you found her name and wanted to see how she was doing, some BS like that, and get a date out of her. If that doesn't happen, oh well, at least you tried and know that it was not meant to be. But if she accepts, just hope that she hasn't grown ugly since you last met her.
 

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My thoughts exactly, NYC Dude, thanks for the post, I think I'll call her soon, heehee.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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