"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB I used to know.

MrS

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It's dry as anything here, concerning girls.
So I'm going through my phonebook, and bam, I find this hot hot hot girl I used to know, she was pretty great, sheused to have a bf I think, but I don't know now. I'm thinking of calling her up, asking her out, nothing to lose, any ideas? I'm pretty sure she digged me, and her sister superdigged me (you know, 13 year old crushes but hey :p ), any tips for this situation?
Last time I spoke to her was about 2 - 2.5 months ago. We met in this school class throughout the year, I made her laugh, and I'm sure she has some nice memories of me. Nothing happened between us, sadly, I was pretty AFC about things back then (throughout the year I mean).
Help a brother out, guys :)
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrS

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anyone? :p
last bump ill do.
 

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well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
 

NYC Dude

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Originally posted by defiancy
well.. u can go ahead but don't you think she wouldn't have lost interest if you were AFC and didn't act on her interest then? I'm sure after a while of doing nothing she would have lost her interst

but there is a chance she'll respond the call if u do give her one, but i doubt that.
Wow, someone has no balls. MrS, since you haven't talked to this girl for a while use that as a basis for when you call her, say that you found her name and wanted to see how she was doing, some BS like that, and get a date out of her. If that doesn't happen, oh well, at least you tried and know that it was not meant to be. But if she accepts, just hope that she hasn't grown ugly since you last met her.
 

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My thoughts exactly, NYC Dude, thanks for the post, I think I'll call her soon, heehee.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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