Mav
Don Juan
HBNewBarmaid started in our work regular on Friday. I didn't get a clear shot at her, mainly due to all the chumptons clammering for her attention, so I thought I'd hold off for a week and lying in bed on Saturday I came up with this. Originally it was based around a barmaid but the more I think about it the better it could work in plenty of other situations; Shop assistants, strangers & directions, waitresses etc, where you have more time to exploit the opening.
Anyhow on with the show. Field test results at the bottom.
Good posture and eye contact as she comes to serve you.
"Hey how's it going.."
(slight pause for breath, don't wait for an answer. Can even work better if she actually does try to answer and you just keep ordering)
"Could I have.."
As you say this look slightly above and to the left/right of her with your eyes, as if you're just thinking about the drinks you need to get. Pause for about 2 seconds then let your face break into a slight smile and chuckle..
"My mind's just gone blank"
While you say this, turn back to look at her, good eye contact and give her a killer smile
"Do you always have this effect on men?"
Teasing tone, emphasise on the 'always'
Then depending on her answer & tone/BL you can go into;
Like most approaches, a lot with this comes with how you pull it off. Despite trying it in the mirror a few times on Saturday morning the first four times, three of which were blowouts (1, 3 & 4), probably came off a bit pre-canned. The slight indifference at the start works well, as does looking away when you're 'about to order'.
Try it out, if it works for you or you have any refinements post post post!
Have fun!
Mav
Anyhow on with the show. Field test results at the bottom.
Good posture and eye contact as she comes to serve you.
"Hey how's it going.."
(slight pause for breath, don't wait for an answer. Can even work better if she actually does try to answer and you just keep ordering)
"Could I have.."
As you say this look slightly above and to the left/right of her with your eyes, as if you're just thinking about the drinks you need to get. Pause for about 2 seconds then let your face break into a slight smile and chuckle..
"My mind's just gone blank"
While you say this, turn back to look at her, good eye contact and give her a killer smile
"Do you always have this effect on men?"
Teasing tone, emphasise on the 'always'
Then depending on her answer & tone/BL you can go into;
- More teasing (her: 'no', you: 'do you have any effects on men?' or alternatively, her 'yes', you: 'well I'm ready now. You'll have to try something else in future, what have you got?')
- Conversation ('are you new here?', 'I thought so, I could see all the drunk men gravitating to this end of the bar')
- Finish your order and get the hell out of Dodge (make yourself feel better with a neg as you retreat; 'I like your friendly attitude, it's one of your better qualities' '
- 9 Tries
- 2 blowouts
- 1 indifference
- 6 positive responses that lead to...
- 3 number attempts
- 2 successes.
Like most approaches, a lot with this comes with how you pull it off. Despite trying it in the mirror a few times on Saturday morning the first four times, three of which were blowouts (1, 3 & 4), probably came off a bit pre-canned. The slight indifference at the start works well, as does looking away when you're 'about to order'.
Try it out, if it works for you or you have any refinements post post post!
Have fun!
Mav
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