"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB 9's with horrible personalities

Mr Wright

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JoeMarron said:
Question, has anyone here actually dated a sane hot chick? It seems to me that an HB 9 without a horrible personality is a unicorn.
I have met plenty of hot girls with nice personalities when you talk to them one on one. Most of them are actually pretty dull people rather than horrible. I've only met a few hot girls who are hot but are not overly occupied with "being hot", if you get what I mean.

What guys don't understand is that these girls get stared at all the time and the novelty wears off quickly. They like attention sometimes not all the time so they develop a b!tchy mask to stop guys from hitting on them. It's one of the reasons why sites like this exist because guys want to know how to get past the "b!tch shields" and all that. They have their defense systems:

- Rolling of the eyes
- Hand in the face
- Verbal signs of disinterest
- Back turning
- Laughing in your face
- Walking away

They do all this stuff to get the message across that they're not interested. As soon as they're nice to a guy, the guy think he's in with a shot and they get lunged at and sh!t. It's like when you get people asking you to sign up for stuff on the street and coming to the door, after a while you just turn into a d!ck because you can't be bothered to let someone down gently.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@JoeMarron,

Yes, I have. I'm not so sure about the 1-10 pedestal. But she quieted rooms everywhere she went.

Maybe a hot woman that doesn't take herself seriously is like Bigfoot. But they do exist.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Question, has anyone here actually dated a sane hot chick? It seems to me that an HB 9 without a horrible personality is a unicorn.
There are some. But if you meet a hot girl at a club it allows her to be btchy even if she is sane. Have to meet them under normal circumstances. But yes most of them are untrustworthy due to them having 2.6 million c0cks inside them
 

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I've got this cousin, well second cousin, she's 24. Remember what Cameron Diaz looked like in "The Mask"? Yeah, almost an exact clone. She's a very beautiful girl. But her overall attitude and demeanor fvcking sucks. She's used to getting hit on constantly. One of her rich ex boyfriends even bought her an Audi A4 which she still has. She's not friendly. She's not personable. She's pretty vapid. I don't even like being around her because she's an a**hole.
 

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I guess hot chicks are doomed to be b!tchy because they got so many guys chasing them, some of them actually downright worshiping them.

Imagine what that does to a chick. Just try to place yourself in their shoes, and imagine how it would feel if half of the world stares at you, pedestalizes you, doesn't know how to communicate normally with you, gives you special treatment, all this just because of your looks and your looks alone. What would that do to you? How do you think that would affect you?

The world needs more Alphas who know how to deal with these chicks and realize they shouldn't be put on a pedestal but instead be treated like every other person. That way I'm sure we'd see less fvcked up 9s and 10s and more normal 9s and 10s.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Kalikoat said:
Imagine what that does to a chick. Just try to place yourself in their shoes, and imagine how it would feel if half of the world stares at you, pedestalizes you, doesn't know how to communicate normally with you, gives you special treatment, all this just because of your looks and your looks alone. What would that do to you? How do you think that would affect you?

That is a pretty interesting take. I would probably turn into a complete bish. Esp if I knew how many guys wanted to get into my pants. These h0es can act btchy and still get what they want.

Probably the reason I'm nice now is that I don't generate that much attention when I'm out, so I don't feel entitled.
 
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