"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last night I asked this hb 9 to lunch tomorrow. Ive known her for a little while and she seemed like she was into me and agreed almost immediately to meet me. She seemed like she was really interested and wanted to meet me. She said she didnt have anything else to do. About 30 minutes ago she messages on facebook me saying that she cant make it. Im not upset or anything because I really want to go out with her. And I think she does too. But why would she just flake on me all of a sudden for no reason?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NSUballer said:
Last night I asked this hb 9 to lunch tomorrow. Ive known her for a little while and she seemed like she was into me and agreed almost immediately to meet me. She seemed like she was really interested and wanted to meet me. She said she didnt have anything else to do. About 30 minutes ago she messages on facebook me saying that she cant make it. Im not upset or anything because I really want to go out with her. And I think she does too. But why would she just flake on me all of a sudden for no reason?
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.
 

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L777 said:
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.


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Don't listen to the hater. Yeah, you probably DID make some kinda mistake, but don't beat yourself up about it.

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L777 said:
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.

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probably someone like iqqi or a sympathizer ragging on ya.
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aliasguy said:
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Don't listen to the hater. Yeah, you probably DID make some kinda mistake, but don't beat yourself up about it.

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mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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L777 said:
mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.




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Well, bubba, I DIDN'T "do the research." I just read the thread. And posted based on what I'd read. Sorry to hurt your feelings with my failure to dig up your past. . I'm so sorry i didn't go back over ALL your posts (and "his") in detail.

And sorry that a "muppet" could have some kinda power to derail your "journey" of self improvement and success. My bad, dude.

Wishing the best for you, and your continued "journey" toward "whatever."
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Self improvement, to the English, usually means taking a shower on Saturday night - even if they don't need it..
 

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Well, bubba, I DIDN'T "do the research." I just read the thread. And posted based on what I'd read. Sorry to hurt your feelings with my failure to dig up your past. . I'm so sorry i didn't go back over ALL your posts (and "his") in detail.

And sorry that a "muppet" could have some kinda power to derail your "journey" of self improvement and success. My bad, dude.

Wishing the best for you, and your continued "journey" toward "whatever."
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This incoherent babble is further proof that you don't have the faintest f.ucking idea what you're on about. Please stop. Cheers
 

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L777 said:
mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.

agreed, americans can be such muppets sometimes
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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