"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Last night I asked this hb 9 to lunch tomorrow. Ive known her for a little while and she seemed like she was into me and agreed almost immediately to meet me. She seemed like she was really interested and wanted to meet me. She said she didnt have anything else to do. About 30 minutes ago she messages on facebook me saying that she cant make it. Im not upset or anything because I really want to go out with her. And I think she does too. But why would she just flake on me all of a sudden for no reason?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NSUballer said:
Last night I asked this hb 9 to lunch tomorrow. Ive known her for a little while and she seemed like she was into me and agreed almost immediately to meet me. She seemed like she was really interested and wanted to meet me. She said she didnt have anything else to do. About 30 minutes ago she messages on facebook me saying that she cant make it. Im not upset or anything because I really want to go out with her. And I think she does too. But why would she just flake on me all of a sudden for no reason?
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.
 

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L777 said:
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.


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Don't listen to the hater. Yeah, you probably DID make some kinda mistake, but don't beat yourself up about it.

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L777 said:
Cos you're a lying, arrogant, fratboy, gangster-wannabe nobhead....I could go on but thats probably enough for now.

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probably someone like iqqi or a sympathizer ragging on ya.
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Don't listen to the hater. Yeah, you probably DID make some kinda mistake, but don't beat yourself up about it.

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mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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L777 said:
mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.




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Well, bubba, I DIDN'T "do the research." I just read the thread. And posted based on what I'd read. Sorry to hurt your feelings with my failure to dig up your past. . I'm so sorry i didn't go back over ALL your posts (and "his") in detail.

And sorry that a "muppet" could have some kinda power to derail your "journey" of self improvement and success. My bad, dude.

Wishing the best for you, and your continued "journey" toward "whatever."
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Self improvement, to the English, usually means taking a shower on Saturday night - even if they don't need it..
 

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Well, bubba, I DIDN'T "do the research." I just read the thread. And posted based on what I'd read. Sorry to hurt your feelings with my failure to dig up your past. . I'm so sorry i didn't go back over ALL your posts (and "his") in detail.

And sorry that a "muppet" could have some kinda power to derail your "journey" of self improvement and success. My bad, dude.

Wishing the best for you, and your continued "journey" toward "whatever."
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This incoherent babble is further proof that you don't have the faintest f.ucking idea what you're on about. Please stop. Cheers
 

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L777 said:
mate I'm English so the term hater doesn't bother me. Read our past posts. Mine is an honest journey of real self improvement and success. His is bragging and lies.

Do the resarch, muppet.

agreed, americans can be such muppets sometimes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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