"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HB 8 with a 6? How to succeed?

golf299

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I'm taking a summer class that meets nearly everyday for about 3 hours. I don't get dressed up for the class or anything like that, and just throw on a hat. I would rate myself about a 6 as I show up to the class.

There's this girl in there who is easily an 8-8.5. She seems to be one of those popular girls and is always giggleing with her friend that is also in the class. Honestly, they seem a bit immature, but they're hot.

So, the HB8 chooses to sit right next to me in lecture. Last class she kicked my bag while she was crossing her legs, and I look over at her, give her a wry smile and tell her "hey, watch it!" I get the desired response as she starts laughing.

Later in class we're both washing our hands at the same sink in lab and I ask her to get me a paper towel, to qualify her. She happily obliges and then she says "here, do you need another?" and gives me another one before I can even answer.

I'm not intimidated by her at all. That's not a problem. Depending on how I feel, I'll probably get her number pretty soon.

My question is this: How do I entertain such a chick? She seems like she'd be a partier, while I am not. I want to take her out just for the experience/practice. What do you guys suggest?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you want any type of chance with her, i think you're going to have to put more time into your appearance.


"Dress, to impress



Spark these b!tches interest."

Notorious BIG
 

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UPDATE...

well, ive just been "being myself" in class. i seem to have capitavated this girls interest, at least for now (we can leave class when ever we're done with what we're doing. she was done well before me today, but didnt leave until i left.) we had a short convo., but i didn't get her number yet....soon....very soon.


in our short convo she made several references to going to watch a local soccer team play. apparently she likes soccer. maybe i'll suggest that she take me to a game? :D

what do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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