"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB 8 with a 6? How to succeed?

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I'm taking a summer class that meets nearly everyday for about 3 hours. I don't get dressed up for the class or anything like that, and just throw on a hat. I would rate myself about a 6 as I show up to the class.

There's this girl in there who is easily an 8-8.5. She seems to be one of those popular girls and is always giggleing with her friend that is also in the class. Honestly, they seem a bit immature, but they're hot.

So, the HB8 chooses to sit right next to me in lecture. Last class she kicked my bag while she was crossing her legs, and I look over at her, give her a wry smile and tell her "hey, watch it!" I get the desired response as she starts laughing.

Later in class we're both washing our hands at the same sink in lab and I ask her to get me a paper towel, to qualify her. She happily obliges and then she says "here, do you need another?" and gives me another one before I can even answer.

I'm not intimidated by her at all. That's not a problem. Depending on how I feel, I'll probably get her number pretty soon.

My question is this: How do I entertain such a chick? She seems like she'd be a partier, while I am not. I want to take her out just for the experience/practice. What do you guys suggest?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you want any type of chance with her, i think you're going to have to put more time into your appearance.


"Dress, to impress



Spark these b!tches interest."

Notorious BIG
 

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UPDATE...

well, ive just been "being myself" in class. i seem to have capitavated this girls interest, at least for now (we can leave class when ever we're done with what we're doing. she was done well before me today, but didnt leave until i left.) we had a short convo., but i didn't get her number yet....soon....very soon.


in our short convo she made several references to going to watch a local soccer team play. apparently she likes soccer. maybe i'll suggest that she take me to a game? :D

what do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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