"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB 8 trying to pick me up on fb

iamnobody

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Got an add friend request from an HB8, I asked her if I knew her from X,Y or Z place before adding her. No common friends, so there’s no way it was a FB suggestion.
Her reply got my attention as she is trying to set me as the chaser. Here’s what she replied:

“No, iamnobody
you don’t know me yet, but you will once you invite me out to one of these 3 places
wink icon”

She might be
A. a chick who likes me and went out of her way to find me on FB.
B. a gold digger/attention wh0re.
C. crazy b1tch looking for a rebound.

Will respond succintly, something like “K, we’ll go to a concert in X place, meet me at X hour, don’t be late.”
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr Wright

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Mind you dont get robbed
 
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Greasy Pig

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Sounds like a classic scam.
Think about it. Why would a hot stranger suddenly add you on FB?
It's probably a dude trolling. Delete "her".
 

iamnobody

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Nah, I've figured it out. She's a groupie. She posted some pics on my fb band's page from one of our gigs a couple of days ago.
 
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