"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HB 8 said "Do you like me?" ...

xero88

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"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rejected123

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So shes back with her ex...
but shes kissing you

she doesnt seem like the type of girl id go out with but its up to you

if u want her though u could always just say...

"i dunno... why dont u come over and make me ;)"

or something like that
 

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xero88 said:
"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
What does HB stand for? I know the "H" is Hot, but is the "B" for Broad or *****? lol
 

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lol sounds like a big mess to me. get out of there before it gets worst!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Alejandro

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how should djs handle this situation? im into the same thing here.
 
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