"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HB 8 said "Do you like me?" ...

xero88

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"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rejected123

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So shes back with her ex...
but shes kissing you

she doesnt seem like the type of girl id go out with but its up to you

if u want her though u could always just say...

"i dunno... why dont u come over and make me ;)"

or something like that
 

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xero88 said:
"Do you like me?" Over the phone. I responded back saying "What makes you think that?" and later on I ask her "do she see me as a friend?" she said yeah, I'm nice, I'm fun to be around, and I can make her laugh really hard. The thing is, she went back w/ her EX. But he treat her like ****, then she kino up with me and even kiss me on the face. Next day, she go back on myspace and tell her ex 'i love you baby!' WTF? lol..

How should I responded to "do you like me?" if she ask me again and deal with this girl next time I see her? Thanks DJ's!
What does HB stand for? I know the "H" is Hot, but is the "B" for Broad or *****? lol
 

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lol sounds like a big mess to me. get out of there before it gets worst!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how should djs handle this situation? im into the same thing here.
 
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