"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB 8-9 dorks?

DJnoob

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Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJnoob said:
Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
Yeah, lots of them are dorks. I'd say 80% of women are dorks. Even if they're hot and cool to hang-out with some of them are just completely clueless. In general alot of people are useless. :yes:

I've got a story for you... HB 9 comes over to my place and I try to start a convo. This chick is a boring idiot so I just start making out with her, gear down and then never talk to her again.
 

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lol... ya, I'd say the vast majority of them.

The real difference is in the quality of their dorkyness though.
Sometimes its cute as hell and attracting, while other times its just a boring turn-off.

Sometimes its good to reveal the dork in an HB. Reduces her to a cute manageable level, that you can enjoy and appreciate... all the while puts you into a position of power with the aire of "Coolness."

From their... the roles are well established to create the dynamic of attraction. (its usully a fun and enjoyable one at that)

Personally... I like a little dork in my women.
Its fun, cute and real.
 

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I dont think "dork" is the right word....Dork is a slang word for a quirky and usually socially inept person, or one who is out of touch with contemporary trends. The word often used synonymously with nerd and geek.

Not exactly someone who is stupid.


I have always said on these boards that getting a peice of ass is not hard....Getting a a girl who is smarter than your average brick wall and is remotely intresting....thats the hard part.

I had a shag prospect on Sat. However i turned it down as the girl was thicker than pig **** and it wasnt even worth my time and effort.
 
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