"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HB 8-9 dorks?

DJnoob

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Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJnoob said:
Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
Yeah, lots of them are dorks. I'd say 80% of women are dorks. Even if they're hot and cool to hang-out with some of them are just completely clueless. In general alot of people are useless. :yes:

I've got a story for you... HB 9 comes over to my place and I try to start a convo. This chick is a boring idiot so I just start making out with her, gear down and then never talk to her again.
 

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lol... ya, I'd say the vast majority of them.

The real difference is in the quality of their dorkyness though.
Sometimes its cute as hell and attracting, while other times its just a boring turn-off.

Sometimes its good to reveal the dork in an HB. Reduces her to a cute manageable level, that you can enjoy and appreciate... all the while puts you into a position of power with the aire of "Coolness."

From their... the roles are well established to create the dynamic of attraction. (its usully a fun and enjoyable one at that)

Personally... I like a little dork in my women.
Its fun, cute and real.
 

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I dont think "dork" is the right word....Dork is a slang word for a quirky and usually socially inept person, or one who is out of touch with contemporary trends. The word often used synonymously with nerd and geek.

Not exactly someone who is stupid.


I have always said on these boards that getting a peice of ass is not hard....Getting a a girl who is smarter than your average brick wall and is remotely intresting....thats the hard part.

I had a shag prospect on Sat. However i turned it down as the girl was thicker than pig **** and it wasnt even worth my time and effort.
 
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