"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HB 8-9 dorks?

DJnoob

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Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJnoob said:
Is it just me or are some of them dorks. Anyone got stories.
Yeah, lots of them are dorks. I'd say 80% of women are dorks. Even if they're hot and cool to hang-out with some of them are just completely clueless. In general alot of people are useless. :yes:

I've got a story for you... HB 9 comes over to my place and I try to start a convo. This chick is a boring idiot so I just start making out with her, gear down and then never talk to her again.
 

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lol... ya, I'd say the vast majority of them.

The real difference is in the quality of their dorkyness though.
Sometimes its cute as hell and attracting, while other times its just a boring turn-off.

Sometimes its good to reveal the dork in an HB. Reduces her to a cute manageable level, that you can enjoy and appreciate... all the while puts you into a position of power with the aire of "Coolness."

From their... the roles are well established to create the dynamic of attraction. (its usully a fun and enjoyable one at that)

Personally... I like a little dork in my women.
Its fun, cute and real.
 

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I dont think "dork" is the right word....Dork is a slang word for a quirky and usually socially inept person, or one who is out of touch with contemporary trends. The word often used synonymously with nerd and geek.

Not exactly someone who is stupid.


I have always said on these boards that getting a peice of ass is not hard....Getting a a girl who is smarter than your average brick wall and is remotely intresting....thats the hard part.

I had a shag prospect on Sat. However i turned it down as the girl was thicker than pig **** and it wasnt even worth my time and effort.
 
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