"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xero88

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hey fella,


Couple days ago I approach this girl at her work place, I started to DJ her. I notice this girl quite awhile now, but didn't really approach her in class because she was always with her EX (that broken up 1 year ago). She was really enjoying herself, unless she was pretending (since she at work). Then later I told her I got to go and ask for her MSN username. She gave it to me, the next day I instant message her, she wasn't really responding the way she did in person. She told me she had a bad day, blah blah blah. I still need to get her number, but never got a chance since the conversation wasn't flowing as smoothly on her part.

Now I am thinking should I continue talking to her, or wait a couple of days. Or just drop it here, but I do like a challenge. And she basically openly armed told me she single at one point when we talk in person. Thanks guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm sorry, I can't give any specific answers right now, but here's what I think:

I think she picked up on the vibe that you liked her. Cowboy up and ask her out on a date, otherwise she'll brand you as another AFC who hasn't the balls to take her out. Or, she may think you're not interested in her because of what you're doing. Either way, you won't get the girl.
 
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Next time you talk to her online, get the number....try to flirt a little first, but try to get it no matter what. What do you have to lose?

Actually....you could ask her out on a date. Then you'd have to get the number...lol
 
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Alright, talked to her online again. Attempt to DJ, but she was feeding me back one word response. What could this possibly mean?
 
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Check this out.

If she liked you she would let you know with IOIs.

Not feeling it?
Next...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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xero88 said:
Alright, talked to her online again. Attempt to DJ, but she was feeding me back one word response. What could this possibly mean?
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Nothing to lose. Ask her out point blank. Who cares. If she says no, then it's really no big deal. You will never know until you ask. Quit ***** footing around.
 
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no offense dude, but I think I asked girls for their screen names in what, maybe 7th, 8th grade?

At your age (19), you go for the #, plain and simple.

As far as the situation you have found yourself in now, I dont know what to tell you. People can be different online. Some people don't like to talk/type a lot. Also, the fact that you are probably throwing normal type of convo at her is suggesting you like her and at the same time probably making you fall closely to the Friends zone.

my only advice now would be to straight up ask her out. Say "we should do something this weekend", if you feel comfortable asking her that of course.
Let us know what happens man
 
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