I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not surprised. Entertainment? As in seeing how many guys you can string along then deny and go ghost?rearea said:POF.com is full of scum. I use that site for entertainment purposes only
What did you want her to do? Get on her knees and beg? What is the point of being on POF if not to meet girls? Here she is saying 'meet me, fawk me", and your response is 'no, I can't because you are tell me too'? :crazy:Rainman4707 said:I was working one of the nights. The previous one she texted me & said she wanted to meet me in town. Like i say i'm not going to jump in my car & fly into town just because she says so
This girls wants nothing to do with you. She thinks you are a psycho. Which, after reading all of your texts, I cannot argue.Rainman4707 said:11 apr 10:25 her: Cant do saturday as im already out & am not a spoilt brat speak for yaseeeelf
11:38 Me-Ya hair looks stunning in ya whatsapp pic. It seems to be sticking up like a ducks arse at the back though.
16:02 Her= A ducks arse? Ur face looks like a ducks crack. Me hair always looks canny when i go out.
16;10 Me- I bet ya hair smells lush. My freind used "the lovely" perfume in 2010. Al d lads wud just stop n stare at her when she entered a room.
18:00 Her: your wierd.
18:29 Me- im attracted to the way certain females who look after themselves smell. Its natural.
18:40 Me- i av a disease called MALE. I am sooo sorry. Please,please FORGIVE ME!
19:41 her- proper fruitloop
19:58 me- Marilyn monroe wannabe. You do sound like her though. Hahaa
20:02 Her- No wonder ya single
20:22 Me- dont spit ya dummy out shaggy
20:23 Her- your the kid with the dummy ya freak.
20:52 Her: Your an unfortuante individual.
12 Apr
21:26 Me- Not a chance i was going to come into town tuesday night just coz you clicked ya fingers!
21:50 Her- stop textin me ya freak.
21:54 Me- Delete my number & dont contact me again.
13 Apr
12:15 Me- You'll av to show me a little more respect if you want my attention! If you dont respect me theres no point.
12:17 Her-I dont need attention and definatley not from you. Already told you to stop texting me!
12:20 Me-Im glad we got that clear.
12:20 Her- Well clearly not if ya still texting pleb.
In the last couple of texts i wanted to get it clear because i have a feeling she will be back in touch.
Wont respond to this bird again unless i think i'll get a fuc* out of it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Rainman4707 said:11 apr 10:25 her: Cant do saturday as im already out & am not a spoilt brat speak for yaseeeelf
11:38 Me-Ya hair looks stunning in ya whatsapp pic. It seems to be sticking up like a ducks arse at the back though.
16:02 Her= A ducks arse? Ur face looks like a ducks crack. Me hair always looks canny when i go out.
16;10 Me- I bet ya hair smells lush. My freind used "the lovely" perfume in 2010. Al d lads wud just stop n stare at her when she entered a room.
18:00 Her: your wierd.
18:29 Me- im attracted to the way certain females who look after themselves smell. Its natural.
18:40 Me- i av a disease called MALE. I am sooo sorry. Please,please FORGIVE ME!
19:41 her- proper fruitloop
19:58 me- Marilyn monroe wannabe. You do sound like her though. Hahaa
20:02 Her- No wonder ya single
20:22 Me- dont spit ya dummy out shaggy
20:23 Her- your the kid with the dummy ya freak.
20:52 Her: Your an unfortuante individual.
12 Apr
21:26 Me- Not a chance i was going to come into town tuesday night just coz you clicked ya fingers!
21:50 Her- stop textin me ya freak.
21:54 Me- Delete my number & dont contact me again.
13 Apr
12:15 Me- You'll av to show me a little more respect if you want my attention! If you dont respect me theres no point.
12:17 Her-I dont need attention and definatley not from you. Already told you to stop texting me!
12:20 Me-Im glad we got that clear.
12:20 Her- Well clearly not if ya still texting pleb.
In the last couple of texts i wanted to get it clear because i have a feeling she will be back in touch.
Wont respond to this bird again unless i think i'll get a fuc* out of it.