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No hard feelings from my end and I apologize for the snippy retort at the end of my last post. Also just to clarity I'm a she not a he. That should be showing up on my profile next to the posts.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No hard feelings from my end and I apologize for the snippy retort at the end of my last post. Also just to clarity I'm a she not a he. That should be showing up on my profile next to the posts.
Being s*hity a*sshole won't make you a real man, you have long way to go.QUOTE]
I told her to come over next weekend, maybe you can felch my semen out of her ass you cuck.
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Yeah pretty much...OP seems to be in a fvcked up place mentally.What a train wreck. You need to sort yourself out.
he sounds like he was horny for drama, not pvssy. no real reason he couldn't either let her spend the night or hint beforehand that he can't let her stay the night so she doesn't come over under the wrong impressionGot that you were horny and needed something to scratch the itch, don't get why you are now trashing the girl here. You let her 'suck' you clean and now you're dumping and making fun of her on this site, posting what she texted you.
Yes she is easy and probably laying lots of guys and not quality material, but she let you use her and now you're trashing her for it? What purpose does it serve to trash some easy girl who lets you do whatever you want to her and who you will probably hit up again?
I can understand if she was a complete bit*h to you but it certainly doesn't seem like she was.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
you’re a petty thief..this thread kinda reminded me of all the fvcked up **** i used to do back in the day when i was broke, pissed and had no fvcks left to give
i used to kick girls out with no money, dissapear in the middle of dates or hanging out in an area theyve never been to. also stole a couple of brand new phones here and there lol
one girl got me some so pissed off once and she was so sloppy drunk i was able to leave with about $200 cash and a brand new iphone lol. she was some bank teller bltch so i still dont feel bad. fvck that bltch lol
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Pre-agreed to end up at hers? Jeez how do you schmooze your way into these sweet deals? Are you a male model or something?Hey don’t contaminate or liken my thread with petty theifdom. I would and have never stolen.
I just drank too much and a bit messed up from ending a relationship so I treated this girls less than kindly, I didn’t steal rape or attack her.
I have a new date for tomorrow who has pre agreed to end up at hers, I’ll wake up on my 29th birthday in a strange woman’s bed on the other side of the city with an urge to sort my life out still.
I put my pics up on photo feeler and they were rated 90% attractiveness by people, I’m a handsome guy, I’m slightly out of shape due to no gym for a while but I’m not fat. If I hit gym I’d get 9/10’s with no game. I’ve also worked in recruitment/sales for years which has given me a natural confidence and I’m also quite witty and sharp in person, on the phone and over text.Pre-agreed to end up at hers? Jeez how do you schmooze your way into these sweet deals? Are you a male model or something?I pre-agree to just go on a freakin' date with them and then I can't even get them to follow through that far at the moment lol.
90% photofeeler, holy shizzle. That explains itI put my pics up on photo feeler and they were rated 90% attractiveness by people, I’m a handsome guy, I’m slightly out of shape due to no gym for a while but I’m not fat. If I hit gym I’d get 9/10’s with no game. I’ve also worked in recruitment/sales for years which has given me a natural confidence and I’m also quite witty and sharp in person, on the phone and over text.
I was a late bloomer, lost my V halfway through 18... a depressed child and teenager... hit 20s and just started killing it with no help.
Got into pickup after some **** relationships and what I now know to be weak frame and rushing into things.
To answer your question girls swipe me, I can message 5 times and have a date. If I call them I can escalate sexually well enough that they want to bang before date 1. I’ll post some whatsapp msgs of how fast this stuff moves for me at a later date.
Bank tellers don't make much money.one girl got me some so pissed off once and she was so sloppy drunk i was able to leave with about $200 cash and a brand new iphone lol. she was some bank teller bltch so i still dont feel bad. fvck that bltch lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
is that the standard you're going for? "at least I'm not bernie madoff"?IF you guys think what I’ve done to some of the women in my past is petty or uncalled for, you haven’t seen no where near the worst of people in general. I’m still a fvcking angel compared to the human feces out there, both male and female.
You're oddly defensive for someone who doesn't think they did anything wrong.So what if it is? Who the fvck are you to judge?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.