"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB 10 surrounded by AMOGs

Rint

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There's this HB10 in my PE class and she's always surrounded by the jocks and AMOGS giving her hugs and stuff. She's had D cup since freshmen and she's hella popular. WTH do i do? I wanna get with her without putting down the other AMOG's. Also she's more popular then me. This site really help my life, but here i'm just stuck i lose all my confidence i worked so hard to gain when i c her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j8snx1

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I just got a verbal beating from my fellow DJ's and I am officially ENLIGHTENED!

Let me share the joy with you.

HB10 + D cups + fantastic looks = attention ***** and/or **** magnet. It's amazing how majority of the guys go nuts over the boob sizes. If it weren't for sosuave, I think I'd be with the majority... but anyway:

Step-by-step:

1)TRUST ME when I say that she's popular with the guys because 99.9% of them want to bang her, that's it.

2)You can get with her by being DIFFERENT! Don't worry about how you look through the eyes of the...AMOG's...whatever that means...and project yourself to her as if you were a fresh breath of air among the chumps who socialize with her...just for sex and her boobs.

3)Bring her down from her pedastal!
...most guys think she's really awesome because she's packing heat on her chest. You on the other hand, are a DJ. Try seeing her through different eyes, the more...critical eyes. I usually do this to bring the girl down from her pedastal by thinking to myself, "this girl isn't THAT great. big boobs so what? boobs dont determine anything." (just using your situation)

4)I feel hypocritical when I say this, since I myself do lose confidence at times, but it is back up now, so I CONFIDENTLY advise you to experiment and be bold when doing it.
I think one funny opener would be something like this. This seems like a good way to open up a conversation.

You: *you see some guy try to hit on her, but she shoots him down and he walks away with a frown on his face. you approach her and say* So, how did he do?
Girl: What do you mean?
You: You know, his pick-up attempt. How was his performance?


ANy other DJ's wanna counter my arguement or add on to it?
 

Rint

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That's good but i'm not sure if she knows all the guys r up to bang her. She's real nice and she hugs sum guys so i dunno the ppl at my HS c men as nice ppl not as wat they really r
 

reyalp

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just a word of warning, if you keep abbreviating words, people are going to start whining about it. type it out.

c = see
u = you
r = are, our

you can do it!
 

ethnomethodologist

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I needs capitilisation

sum=some

dunno=don't know

ppl=people

HS is alright

wat=what(this is the worst of them all)

Takes two seconds to portray a better man, it means you take your time to do a better job:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, all that advice is good and all, but I gotta say, if you aren't that much of a DJ and/or you aren't very popular, you may want to start on some girls that aren't 10's. I realize there's the whole DJ mindset of any guy can get with any girl he wants if he tries, which can be true. However, to get to that point you have to start off with some more attainable girls. Don't start off by going for the hottest girls that every guy goes after. Try some 6's or 7's out.

If you still wanna try for it, then sure, go for it because you've got nothing to lose, you will just have a much better shot once you're more experienced.
 

rowing_mike

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tbh, if you go for 7/8 youre not going to get this girl anyway. Go chat to her, get rejected, have a laugh, get some more confidence doing this knowing you wasnt worried, go for the 7/8s. Or prove me wrong, and have her.
 
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