"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hay guys, i'm new here. and like some of you i'm tired of being single.

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Hi everybody. The name’s Logen (real name Mike)

I found this place after doing some google searches for a seduction resource.

My ways with women have always been very awkward and pitiful, especially the ones that where strangers. Throughout high school and college I was told that I was “cute” and a good looking guy. But I always lacked the confidence and self esteem to follow through be outgoing. I’m a senior in college now and have yet to have a real, long term GF. My longest relationship ahs been a month. And I only had 3 relationships. I got them because the female approached me.

i started, like many of you here, by reading “The Game”. The book pretty much showed me everything i want. Confidence, brimming self esteem, and a authentic power to use on women. I figured that registering at a forum like this one is a good start.

I have set out to be more daring in my life, Especially towards women. 2 years ago I could not look a HB in the eyes. Now if I see one in the hallway of my school I make sure see see’s me notice her. And most of the time she looks away because she’s proly the one that’s shy all the sudden.

I have yet to saddle up the nerve to walk up to them, but one step at a time.

About 10 min before actually writing this I was on my way to the bathroom at my school (I work at my school as a computer lab admin) when I noticed a super cute HB (I’d say a high 8) just standing there waiting for an elevator. I looked right at her and assumed my ****y self esteem walking stride. Here eyes locked mine and in almost an instant where off me and on the floor. I had intimidated her. I walked past her looking at her from the side of my eye. I enter the bathroom, washed my hands and rinsed out my mouth really really fast so I could catch her again on ym way back but she was gone. I was ready to walk up and say hi, and just take it from there. Man, the regret of not talking to her the first time I saw her is killing me right now.

Well, there’s my mini account for today. I’ll definitely be frequenting this forum, asking question, and learning.

thanks for reading guys. (pardon the grammer, i suck at it)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude...read the DJ Bible, its on the top right corner of this screen :up:.
 

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haha yea i've been looking through it. it's huge so i proly wont get through half the stuff any tiem soon.
 

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Yeah but, its a wealth of knowledge :up:. You can also better yourself inside and out by going to the gym (feel good physically & mentally), pick up a hobby/sport, read (you gain a ton of knowledge & become more articulate), and, began to talk to girls in the everyday setting e.g. at the grocery store, walking down the street, at the gym etc. Anywhere but, JUST DO IT.
 

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Re: Re: hay guys, i'm new here. and like some of you i'm tired of being single.

Originally posted by JC Jerkson
:rolleyes:

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Why are you tired of being single? When/If you become a high status male you will see things differently. You will have choice and variety. You won't wanna be tied down. ;)

Welcome. Be sure you read the DJ Bible and do a SEARCH BEFORE you ask a question.


JC Jerkson
i should of figured that a commercial success like The Game would be frowned upon here. but it's true. i read the book and it tought me that there is a way out for guys like me. guys who think they will only experience half of a half a dozen female sin their life.

and you're right. i'd definitely like to play the game for a little time. get to know women, have some fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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