"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Having your own house party?

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Hey guys,

Ive been lucky enough to be able to throw some pretty stellar house parties over the years, with the hottub and bbq and all the fun stuff that comes along with it, unfortunately having a house party requires you to stay relatively sober, and constantly looking out for the valuables and random (dudes) that show up. Thus gaming is nearly impossible and Ive never been able to finish off the night (litterally)...

well one time when my ex pissed the bed during the night. I dont do drunk passed out girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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point is to find a way to ensure your own success at your own house party.
 
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Well yes its more of a hassle since your in charge, but that also gives off the alpha male presence in the room if your taking charge.

well at my last party i knew i had a few dependable friends who werent drinking too much that night cuz they had to drive, so me and my girl just went up to my room.

it all depends on the crowd, if your party has randoms, or friends.
 
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AlexParadox said:
Well yes its more of a hassle since your in charge, but that also gives off the alpha male presence in the room if your taking charge.

well at my last party i knew i had a few dependable friends who werent drinking too much that night cuz they had to drive, so me and my girl just went up to my room.

it all depends on the crowd, if your party has randoms, or friends.
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I throw house parties from time to time, Me personally I don't get to wasted, even though my cousin might has well be my brother is trusting enough where he is looking out for my best interest. I don't think I would bring a girl up to my bed room during a party anymore, that’s more like a H.S thing.


Hey guys,

Ive been lucky enough to be able to throw some pretty stellar house parties over the years, with the hottub and bbq and all the fun stuff that comes along with it, unfortunately having a house party requires you to stay relatively sober, and constantly looking out for the valuables and random (dudes) that show up. Thus gaming is nearly impossible and Ive never been able to finish off the night (literally)...

Well one time when my ex pissed the bed during the night. I don’t do drunk passed out girls.
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I had a girl piss my bed recently, that’s the last time she slept over my house.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea, you need to have somebody watching the door at all times, or else your small kickback will turn into a large wiener-roast with dudes you've never seen before.
 
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