"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Having your own house party?

mtlwlu

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Hey guys,

Ive been lucky enough to be able to throw some pretty stellar house parties over the years, with the hottub and bbq and all the fun stuff that comes along with it, unfortunately having a house party requires you to stay relatively sober, and constantly looking out for the valuables and random (dudes) that show up. Thus gaming is nearly impossible and Ive never been able to finish off the night (litterally)...

well one time when my ex pissed the bed during the night. I dont do drunk passed out girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mtlwlu

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point is to find a way to ensure your own success at your own house party.
 

AlexParadox

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Well yes its more of a hassle since your in charge, but that also gives off the alpha male presence in the room if your taking charge.

well at my last party i knew i had a few dependable friends who werent drinking too much that night cuz they had to drive, so me and my girl just went up to my room.

it all depends on the crowd, if your party has randoms, or friends.
 

eyedea40

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AlexParadox said:
Well yes its more of a hassle since your in charge, but that also gives off the alpha male presence in the room if your taking charge.

well at my last party i knew i had a few dependable friends who werent drinking too much that night cuz they had to drive, so me and my girl just went up to my room.

it all depends on the crowd, if your party has randoms, or friends.
I throw house parties from time to time, Me personally I don't get to wasted, even though my cousin might has well be my brother is trusting enough where he is looking out for my best interest. I don't think I would bring a girl up to my bed room during a party anymore, that’s more like a H.S thing.


Hey guys,

Ive been lucky enough to be able to throw some pretty stellar house parties over the years, with the hottub and bbq and all the fun stuff that comes along with it, unfortunately having a house party requires you to stay relatively sober, and constantly looking out for the valuables and random (dudes) that show up. Thus gaming is nearly impossible and Ive never been able to finish off the night (literally)...

Well one time when my ex pissed the bed during the night. I don’t do drunk passed out girls.
I had a girl piss my bed recently, that’s the last time she slept over my house.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bluesteak

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Yea, you need to have somebody watching the door at all times, or else your small kickback will turn into a large wiener-roast with dudes you've never seen before.
 
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