I am more a moderate extrovert, I am fine with being outgoing and chasing hoes for fun and sitting back and doing nothing as long as i don't get to the point of cabin fever. I recently figured out that most of buddies who are guys are more introverted and don't like going out. I find this detrimental because i don't want to be the weird guy at the bar by myself. I know my obvious solution is get more extroverted guy friends. Is there anyway that i can get this guys more motivated? or should I go alone, because i feel like this is massively holding me back.
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having your bros/buddies/ or wings holding you back?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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After a certain age I've learned that some people want to go out and some people don't. There isn't much changing their basic attitude towards bars and clubs. If someone knows (or thinks) they don't like social places like that it's hard for them to change their perception. It's as bad as you staying at home!
Keep them as friends since, in my opinion, the old friends who knew you when are important, but find another crew to go out with. You may have to start out as the weird guy at the bar alone.
Keep them as friends since, in my opinion, the old friends who knew you when are important, but find another crew to go out with. You may have to start out as the weird guy at the bar alone.
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You should go out alone and make new friends who like going out. You can make those friends at the club/bar or even using this site. Being able to go it alone is valuable. I went out alone on Halloween last year. I made friends that night.
You'll meet tons of new people if and when you go out. This option is better than staying in or being dependant on waiting for others to show up.
You may even find so much more in common or deeper connection with these other new people than your friends. There is a ton of benefits to going out sarging alone.
You won't be the weird guy alone at the bar. You'll be the confident guy out living his life and doing what he wants to do, making things happen and being in the party. That's cool. So go for it man.
You may even find so much more in common or deeper connection with these other new people than your friends. There is a ton of benefits to going out sarging alone.
You won't be the weird guy alone at the bar. You'll be the confident guy out living his life and doing what he wants to do, making things happen and being in the party. That's cool. So go for it man.
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