Not for nothing, but I think that your site shouldn't look anything like SoSuave. If you want this venture to succeed, you can start by giving you site an original look.
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You should use the software at this site, tlhttp://community.allhiphop.com/profile/Maximus%20Rex.
That's my profile page at allhiphop.com. What I really like is the reaction page. With a reaction page you can customize it as it to give the user an idea as to who's giving good advice.
Also, why should I join your site? You're not giving the potential members a reason to join. You only have 7 forums and six of those seven are about online dating.
I know that you probably read that seemingly oxymoronic statement over, but dude you need more forums. Cats do something with their lives other holla at chicks. Your site needs to be something everything that So Suave isn't so I strongly advise that you add the following forums.
Field reports. Dudes want read about guys in field experience. If you add a field report section, I will personally go through the extraordinarily tedious task of adding, The Adventures of Omnipotens Maximus Rex, Reports From the Field. If you go to my approach journal, that's seven pages of fields reports with pictures.
Day Game. I still approach women in the street and I can offer advice here.
Night game. Dude are still going to clubs.
Fashion. Guys need advice on how to dress and where to buy clothes.
Gear Head section. Your car subforum.
Entertainment section. Cats like to talk about their favorite t.v. shows, movies, and music. I also suggest that you throw in a comic book section.
Fitness. To talk weight lifting and other "bro science."
Possibly a politics and current events section. Be warned that this section can easily degenerate into a cluster f*ck.
No posting limit or profanity filter. Some dudes post more than others and we're grown ass men here, we can take salty language.
Sports section. How do you have a forum dominated by men and not have a sports section?
Personally invite people to your broad. Send messages to people that feel will make a positive contribution to board and offer to make them moderators. I can offer some suggestions for moderators.
State your credentials. You have a message board about online dating, but you have nothing your success or failures, for that matter. With the exception of your welcome message, you have zero threads going. Until you get members on your board, you're going to have to post threads and articles.
Finally, get e-mail or send a PM to Harry Wilimington. Through years of trial and error, Harry had transformed himself into one of foremost authorities on relationships and online dating. Harry specializes in online dating and he's written an e book on the very subject.
I suggest that you contact Harry and schedule an interview with him. Here you can discuss your site and what you hope that it will eventually become. You may to consider offering Harry an administrator's role on your board and you should look into some cross promotion with Harry. You could sponsor his podcast and he advertise on your board. If you implement these suggestions, I don't see any reason why you wouldn't be successful in this venture. Good luck.
