"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Having trouble wake up?

Booblepook

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Are you having trouble wakeing up early in the morning? Have you tried going to bed early, but still couldn't wake up early.


Be it for exercise, work, or whatever..


I have found a missing link between being able wake up fresh, vs not being able to wake up at all that early. Strength training, muscle building exercises..


From dumb bells to machines, just about anything you can think of. A routine every other day keeps you refreshed throughout the day, as well as allows you to be able to wake up early in the morning and feel fresh!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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future_strongguy

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I think there's more to it than exercise. Some say it's "needing something to wake up to" or something.

For the past few days I have had a hard time getting up. I had no appetite in the morning, and felt terrible, even though I was getting 8 hours of sleep.

Today for some reason I woke up very easily, and was hungry. I felt great, like I do in the middle of the day. I'm eating a breakfast normally now. Got the same amount of sleep, 8 hours.

I wonder if it has something to do with the "stage" of sleep you are in or something...
 

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Perhaps, I just pulled 2 allnighters in a row with 4 hours of sleep throughout 2 days....just because.

Anyways, there are 30min-1hr periods where I STRUGGLE to keep my eyelids open, but 5AM in the morning I'm fine.

Also, if I take 1hr-90min naps, I wake up fine. If I sleep like 8 hrs or 7 hrs, I cannot wake up with an alarm or anything...I gotta hit that snooze. My cycles are approx. 90 min I think.
 

Booblepook

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Desert Fox said:
If I sleep like 8 hrs or 7 hrs, I cannot wake up with an alarm or anything...I gotta hit that snooze.

There. Now, work out, and normalize your sleeping cycle.
 

Desert Fox

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Booblepook said:
There. Now, work out, and normalize your sleeping cycle.
Thanks.

If I sleep any multiple of 1.5 hours, then I can wake up sometimes even without an alarm clock. However, if it's off 1.5 hours by 15 minutes or more, then I'm screwed and don't wake up for a long time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NeedToImprove

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future_strongguy said:
For the past few days I have had a hard time getting up. I had no appetite in the morning, and felt terrible, even though I was getting 8 hours of sleep.
same here. last few days i wake up very weak and tired, and im getting 8 hours sleep. also taking a multivitaminic, bcaas and a proper diet, what it might be?

i work out from monday till saturday resting sunday, 3 x cycling per week, maybe im in overtraining or something?
 

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what are you waking up for each day? what's your motivation? if you're not looking forward to it, getting up sucks, bottom line.
 

Triple T

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Throttle said:
what are you waking up for each day? what's your motivation? if you're not looking forward to it, getting up sucks, bottom line.
x2

Have you guys ever noticed, that on weekends you wake up early? (well I do)

On weekdays when I have school, I usually wake up around 8:15. On weekends I wake up at around 7:15.


Its because I'm looking forward to enjoying my weekend with friends and I'm pumped to get out and start doing it as soon as possible.
 

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Triple T said:
x2

Have you guys ever noticed, that on weekends you wake up early? (well I do)

On weekdays when I have school, I usually wake up around 8:15. On weekends I wake up at around 7:15.


Its because I'm looking forward to enjoying my weekend with friends and I'm pumped to get out and start doing it as soon as possible.
I've got to agree with you 100%.
As much as I love sleeping in, I just make myself go to bed earlier so I can enjoy a full day the next day! :up:
Life's too short to spend my morning laying in bed when I could be doing something else. Although, I must admit, I spend the occasional morning treating myself to sleeping in.
 

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I have delayed sleep phase disorder. My internal clock (in the hypothalmus?) is convinced that a day should last 25 hours. If I stop setting an alarm clock, I go to bed an hour later each day, and go completely around the clock until I'm eventually going to bed at noon, etc.. That just feels normal.

One thing to try: you must resist the temptation to catch up on weekends. You must not only force yourself awake on weekdays, but every day. Show no forgiveness to your wacky sleep cycle. Crush it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy Asian

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have a packet of mega warheads by your bed.
as soon as you wake up, pop one of those in your mouth, and i assure you that you won't be sleepy anymore :D
 

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haha
i still have some testosterone pills that i have left over if i have a hard time waking up i just pop two of those.
 
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