"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having trouble wake up?

Booblepook

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Are you having trouble wakeing up early in the morning? Have you tried going to bed early, but still couldn't wake up early.


Be it for exercise, work, or whatever..


I have found a missing link between being able wake up fresh, vs not being able to wake up at all that early. Strength training, muscle building exercises..


From dumb bells to machines, just about anything you can think of. A routine every other day keeps you refreshed throughout the day, as well as allows you to be able to wake up early in the morning and feel fresh!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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future_strongguy

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I think there's more to it than exercise. Some say it's "needing something to wake up to" or something.

For the past few days I have had a hard time getting up. I had no appetite in the morning, and felt terrible, even though I was getting 8 hours of sleep.

Today for some reason I woke up very easily, and was hungry. I felt great, like I do in the middle of the day. I'm eating a breakfast normally now. Got the same amount of sleep, 8 hours.

I wonder if it has something to do with the "stage" of sleep you are in or something...
 

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Perhaps, I just pulled 2 allnighters in a row with 4 hours of sleep throughout 2 days....just because.

Anyways, there are 30min-1hr periods where I STRUGGLE to keep my eyelids open, but 5AM in the morning I'm fine.

Also, if I take 1hr-90min naps, I wake up fine. If I sleep like 8 hrs or 7 hrs, I cannot wake up with an alarm or anything...I gotta hit that snooze. My cycles are approx. 90 min I think.
 

Booblepook

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Desert Fox said:
If I sleep like 8 hrs or 7 hrs, I cannot wake up with an alarm or anything...I gotta hit that snooze.

There. Now, work out, and normalize your sleeping cycle.
 

Desert Fox

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Booblepook said:
There. Now, work out, and normalize your sleeping cycle.
Thanks.

If I sleep any multiple of 1.5 hours, then I can wake up sometimes even without an alarm clock. However, if it's off 1.5 hours by 15 minutes or more, then I'm screwed and don't wake up for a long time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NeedToImprove

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future_strongguy said:
For the past few days I have had a hard time getting up. I had no appetite in the morning, and felt terrible, even though I was getting 8 hours of sleep.
same here. last few days i wake up very weak and tired, and im getting 8 hours sleep. also taking a multivitaminic, bcaas and a proper diet, what it might be?

i work out from monday till saturday resting sunday, 3 x cycling per week, maybe im in overtraining or something?
 

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what are you waking up for each day? what's your motivation? if you're not looking forward to it, getting up sucks, bottom line.
 

Triple T

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Throttle said:
what are you waking up for each day? what's your motivation? if you're not looking forward to it, getting up sucks, bottom line.
x2

Have you guys ever noticed, that on weekends you wake up early? (well I do)

On weekdays when I have school, I usually wake up around 8:15. On weekends I wake up at around 7:15.


Its because I'm looking forward to enjoying my weekend with friends and I'm pumped to get out and start doing it as soon as possible.
 

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Triple T said:
x2

Have you guys ever noticed, that on weekends you wake up early? (well I do)

On weekdays when I have school, I usually wake up around 8:15. On weekends I wake up at around 7:15.


Its because I'm looking forward to enjoying my weekend with friends and I'm pumped to get out and start doing it as soon as possible.
I've got to agree with you 100%.
As much as I love sleeping in, I just make myself go to bed earlier so I can enjoy a full day the next day! :up:
Life's too short to spend my morning laying in bed when I could be doing something else. Although, I must admit, I spend the occasional morning treating myself to sleeping in.
 

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I have delayed sleep phase disorder. My internal clock (in the hypothalmus?) is convinced that a day should last 25 hours. If I stop setting an alarm clock, I go to bed an hour later each day, and go completely around the clock until I'm eventually going to bed at noon, etc.. That just feels normal.

One thing to try: you must resist the temptation to catch up on weekends. You must not only force yourself awake on weekdays, but every day. Show no forgiveness to your wacky sleep cycle. Crush it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crazy Asian

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have a packet of mega warheads by your bed.
as soon as you wake up, pop one of those in your mouth, and i assure you that you won't be sleepy anymore :D
 

yep

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haha
i still have some testosterone pills that i have left over if i have a hard time waking up i just pop two of those.
 
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