"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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having trouble reading a particular girl

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First of all, take note that this is a college relationship, so seeing/calling eachother everyday is not out of the ordinary

So i was wondering if you guys have any input on what a particular girl REALLY has going through her mind. lately, it's been mixed messages, but this could be because i've been paying less attention to her lately :

-she returns all my phone calls, but will only call me on her own will once a week or so
-she tells her friends she likes me, but doesn't express it verbally to me
-she likes to hang out, but also doesn't have a problem going to the bar on her own with friends instead
-she will not hesitate to not contact me for a few days, unless i contact her (then shes back to calling me)
-she doesn't see other guys, but actively flirts with others right infront of me (obviously trying to tap into my jealousy)
-she likes to play the game; repeatedly tells me she doesnt CALL guys, guys call her
-shes one of the most beautiful girls on campus, so she gets hit on numerous times a day.. hence why ive avoided throwing compliments like candy
-she is available for the majority of our dates, but has broken one or two for going out with her girls

with so many mixed messages, it's hard to see whats going through her mind. so do i keep playing hard to get with her or what? it seems like whenever i play hard to get shes semi interested, but whenever im down to earth and honest with her, shes into it also.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WC2, only thing i can say is she has started to give some special signal, some non-verbal signs. it's a good thing. but, dont rush. wait for her to make some more positive move and then move on. i am sure she likes you and wants to move on with you, that's why she is testing and teasing you all the time. be careful while talking to her. hope this helps,

BTW, my first post here. very nice forum.
 

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Hey guys welcome to the club.

First of all go read the bible it has your answer in it.

From what I can see she does have interest in you but its not a heck of alot. She maybe just returning all your calls out of good nature. You are moslt likely not on her to do lists yet as she doesnt call you much and has already broken dates with you.

If she does like you go in for the kill dont be a wuss and let her make the move, or one of these other dudes that she talks to will and your gonna lose out.

And are you gaming any other girls ?? If not why ?? Have you kissed her yet/ made out ?? This is college bro live it up, and read the bible again man or your gonna come back here in 2 weeks time with a sad story, I'd rather have you come back with a "I nailed her last night story" then a "I was too slow"
 

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haha, yeah of course im hitting it with other chicks.. but this is a particular one i actually do like a lot. to answer your question though, i've kissed her many times and maybe a little more, but haven't really stepped it up when it comes to laying her.. ive got to let myself stop caring so much just cause i like her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There we go man you answered your own question. Dont let the emotions cloud your head, if she's worth it let time show it but for now make sure you give her a reason to really fall for you and dont miss out.
 
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