"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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having trouble reading a particular girl

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First of all, take note that this is a college relationship, so seeing/calling eachother everyday is not out of the ordinary

So i was wondering if you guys have any input on what a particular girl REALLY has going through her mind. lately, it's been mixed messages, but this could be because i've been paying less attention to her lately :

-she returns all my phone calls, but will only call me on her own will once a week or so
-she tells her friends she likes me, but doesn't express it verbally to me
-she likes to hang out, but also doesn't have a problem going to the bar on her own with friends instead
-she will not hesitate to not contact me for a few days, unless i contact her (then shes back to calling me)
-she doesn't see other guys, but actively flirts with others right infront of me (obviously trying to tap into my jealousy)
-she likes to play the game; repeatedly tells me she doesnt CALL guys, guys call her
-shes one of the most beautiful girls on campus, so she gets hit on numerous times a day.. hence why ive avoided throwing compliments like candy
-she is available for the majority of our dates, but has broken one or two for going out with her girls

with so many mixed messages, it's hard to see whats going through her mind. so do i keep playing hard to get with her or what? it seems like whenever i play hard to get shes semi interested, but whenever im down to earth and honest with her, shes into it also.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WC2, only thing i can say is she has started to give some special signal, some non-verbal signs. it's a good thing. but, dont rush. wait for her to make some more positive move and then move on. i am sure she likes you and wants to move on with you, that's why she is testing and teasing you all the time. be careful while talking to her. hope this helps,

BTW, my first post here. very nice forum.
 

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Hey guys welcome to the club.

First of all go read the bible it has your answer in it.

From what I can see she does have interest in you but its not a heck of alot. She maybe just returning all your calls out of good nature. You are moslt likely not on her to do lists yet as she doesnt call you much and has already broken dates with you.

If she does like you go in for the kill dont be a wuss and let her make the move, or one of these other dudes that she talks to will and your gonna lose out.

And are you gaming any other girls ?? If not why ?? Have you kissed her yet/ made out ?? This is college bro live it up, and read the bible again man or your gonna come back here in 2 weeks time with a sad story, I'd rather have you come back with a "I nailed her last night story" then a "I was too slow"
 

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haha, yeah of course im hitting it with other chicks.. but this is a particular one i actually do like a lot. to answer your question though, i've kissed her many times and maybe a little more, but haven't really stepped it up when it comes to laying her.. ive got to let myself stop caring so much just cause i like her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There we go man you answered your own question. Dont let the emotions cloud your head, if she's worth it let time show it but for now make sure you give her a reason to really fall for you and dont miss out.
 
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