Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Having trouble deciding what to do with flakes..

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I'm not talking about girls who will call/text before the scheduled date/hang-out and cancel on you, I'm talking about the girls who, the day of the date, won't contact you at all to finalize your plans. My example.. Possible future f*ck buddy, on Monday we agreed to meet Friday, she texts me Wednesday at 2AM :eek: saying she wants to **** now (not possible), tell her she's gonna have to wait till Friday, today (Friday) comes, I ask her what time I should come over (text), no answer at all all day.

This has happened more than once.. So what to do with girls like this?

1.) NEXT her immediately
2.) Say nothing and go no contact for 3-7 days then hit her up and try again
3.) Contact her the day after and tell her something like "I would have appreciated and respected you telling me that you weren't interested so I could have made plans with someone else ahead of time."

I usually go approach #2 and hit them up again after a few days and try again, if they flake a second time or don't contact me back I next them. Buuuut I'm starting to want try #3 just to see their responses (if they give one).

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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4.) Wait for her to contact you, since you contacted her and she didn't reply.
 
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Always next girls that do this. Girls like this love your attention, love being a c0cktease and having you in their lives just to feed their ego.

I've had this happen to me many times. I've managed to get an apology out of them and reschedule another date, but then they did the same thing again! They're a drain on your self-esteem, a waste of your time and you shouldn't take them seriously.

You can do any of the 3 options, it doesn't really matter, just don't expect it to make a difference.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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