Having trouble deciding what to do with flakes..

[Korrupt]

I'm not talking about girls who will call/text before the scheduled date/hang-out and cancel on you, I'm talking about the girls who, the day of the date, won't contact you at all to finalize your plans. My example.. Possible future f*ck buddy, on Monday we agreed to meet Friday, she texts me Wednesday at 2AM saying she wants to **** now (not possible), tell her she's gonna have to wait till Friday, today (Friday) comes, I ask her what time I should come over (text), no answer at all all day.

This has happened more than once.. So what to do with girls like this?

1.) NEXT her immediately
2.) Say nothing and go no contact for 3-7 days then hit her up and try again
3.) Contact her the day after and tell her something like "I would have appreciated and respected you telling me that you weren't interested so I could have made plans with someone else ahead of time."

I usually go approach #2 and hit them up again after a few days and try again, if they flake a second time or don't contact me back I next them. Buuuut I'm starting to want try #3 just to see their responses (if they give one).

Thoughts?

 

[runner83]

Caring is creepy and whoever cares least controls the relationship.

2 strikes rule i.e. option #2

You could give #3 a shot but all it is saying is that you give a damn when she plainly doesn't.

 

[Veridin]

4.) Wait for her to contact you, since you contacted her and she didn't reply.

 

[Jariel]

Always next girls that do this. Girls like this love your attention, love being a c0cktease and having you in their lives just to feed their ego.

I've had this happen to me many times. I've managed to get an apology out of them and reschedule another date, but then they did the same thing again! They're a drain on your self-esteem, a waste of your time and you shouldn't take them seriously.

You can do any of the 3 options, it doesn't really matter, just don't expect it to make a difference.

 

[Allurre]

Wait for her to give you that booty call again, and act on it when only convenient for you.