"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Having social anxiety where there shouldnt be any...

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Hello everyone, this is my first time posting here but i have been lurking here for probably about 6 months. Ive read the bible, ive gone out and done some field sarges, basically im well on my way with the DJ path.

But, theres this girl. Yea, i have one-itis for her, and its really bugging me. The thing is though, whenever i want to call her to hang out, i can never do it... for some reason or another i just cant make that call. The weird thing is though that shes waiting for me to make the call, its not like shes going to reject me, she really wants to hang out with me. Through texts and Myspace, she always says that she wants to hang out, and i say ok ill call you, and i just cant do it haha.

Can anyone relate to this or try to help me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No offense but questions like this are stupid. You already know the answer to your question you just dont want to do it. You know what you have to do so do it.

I dont know what you are expecting, honestly what can anyone say that would mak picking up the phone easier
 
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Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
 
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DJDN said:
Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
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Well, i dunno about texting asking for dates, but i guess the end result is really all that matters. Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.
 
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asdfghjkl said:
Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.
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Yea, ill try to do that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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