"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Having social anxiety where there shouldnt be any...

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Hello everyone, this is my first time posting here but i have been lurking here for probably about 6 months. Ive read the bible, ive gone out and done some field sarges, basically im well on my way with the DJ path.

But, theres this girl. Yea, i have one-itis for her, and its really bugging me. The thing is though, whenever i want to call her to hang out, i can never do it... for some reason or another i just cant make that call. The weird thing is though that shes waiting for me to make the call, its not like shes going to reject me, she really wants to hang out with me. Through texts and Myspace, she always says that she wants to hang out, and i say ok ill call you, and i just cant do it haha.

Can anyone relate to this or try to help me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No offense but questions like this are stupid. You already know the answer to your question you just dont want to do it. You know what you have to do so do it.

I dont know what you are expecting, honestly what can anyone say that would mak picking up the phone easier
 
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Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
 
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DJDN said:
Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
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Well, i dunno about texting asking for dates, but i guess the end result is really all that matters. Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.
 
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Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.
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Yea, ill try to do that
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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