"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDN

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Hello everyone, this is my first time posting here but i have been lurking here for probably about 6 months. Ive read the bible, ive gone out and done some field sarges, basically im well on my way with the DJ path.

But, theres this girl. Yea, i have one-itis for her, and its really bugging me. The thing is though, whenever i want to call her to hang out, i can never do it... for some reason or another i just cant make that call. The weird thing is though that shes waiting for me to make the call, its not like shes going to reject me, she really wants to hang out with me. Through texts and Myspace, she always says that she wants to hang out, and i say ok ill call you, and i just cant do it haha.

Can anyone relate to this or try to help me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No offense but questions like this are stupid. You already know the answer to your question you just dont want to do it. You know what you have to do so do it.

I dont know what you are expecting, honestly what can anyone say that would mak picking up the phone easier
 

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Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
 

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DJDN said:
Wow, she texted me to talk about some random crap, next thing i know, im asking her to hang out tomorrow. I didnt do it by calling but whatever i guess haha.:up:
Well, i dunno about texting asking for dates, but i guess the end result is really all that matters. Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.
 

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asdfghjkl said:
Next time, try not to let your emotions get all tangled and just ask her out right away.

Yea, ill try to do that
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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