Having sex with the Ex

[Wiesman44]

Hmmm, so I need everyone's opinion on this one. I broke up with my ex in early October. Actually she dumped me. She was all messed up in the head, yada yada yada, needless to say it was only a 2 month relationship, so didnt care. But I never got sex out of the deal. Saturday at a party, she was flirting with me. She might want me again.

I DO NOT have feelings for her. I just want to fu#k her b/c i never got to before. I do have another girl I'm dating but she's about to move 2 hrs away so I won't get ass as often as I'd like. I really dont have feelings for her either, she's just hot. My ex lives close and is convenient. If I could make her think I want a relationship again, and fu#k the crap out of her it would be awesome. More like revenge sex or something, lol. I'm going to continue djing and look for girls, but I want to try this.

Do you guys think I'm out of my mind for attempting something like this ? What are your thoughts.

 

[diablo]

It sounds like you already know what you should be doing... if it's just sex you want, then whats holding you back?

 

[Wiesman44]

Dunno, I kinda feel bad about the **** thats been going on in her life, and how its affecting her. I still care for her, but my natural desires of fu#king her overwhelm it. I'm just wondering if this is way to cruel to do to someone who's been a waterfall of emotions in the past few months. Should she be another *score* on my list, or do u guys think some women should just be spared b/c you feel sorry for them / feel you'll hurt them really bad.

Just need some opinions.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Dunno, I kinda feel bad about the **** thats been going on in her life, and how its affecting her. I still care for her, but my natural desires of fu#king her overwhelm it. I'm just wondering if this is way to cruel to do to someone who's been a waterfall of emotions in the past few months. Should she be another *score* on my list, or do u guys think some women should just be spared b/c you feel sorry for them / feel you'll hurt them really bad.

Just need some opinions.

It depends. If she was just a bit of a nut and emotionally unstable, then leave her alone. She didn't mean to burn you, just that she's messed in the head....it would be cruel to add to the baggage she's already carrying. If this is the case, next time try to look for a more mentally stable girl, instead of just a good looking girl.

However, if you have good reason to believe she was fine mentally and just wanted to mess with YOUR head, then go for it. Some girls are just plainly manipulative, deceitful, etc. If they play those kinds of games with you, go ahead and return the favor.

 

[cactus3178]

Question: Is this just a one time thing you want to do, or something you want to have be an ongoing situation?

 

[KnightRyder]

just a quick question,

are you in college or do you work ?

 

[Wiesman44]

college....meaning there's plenty of others around, but thats not the point. I have this urge to want to bone her b/c she was such a damn good kisser, I have a feeling she'd be awesome in bed.

 

[Chilli_pimp]

so she has alot $hit goin on in her life... maybe she just wants to take the aggresion out thru sex... anyway, if she's an emotional unstable person, maybe it isn't a good idea... but if not, iceberg baby, no emotions... just bang that, no doubt.

 

[FunnyCide]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Hmmm, so I need everyone's opinion on this one. I broke up with my ex in early October. Actually she dumped me. She was all messed up in the head, yada yada yada, needless to say it was only a 2 month relationship, so didnt care. But I never got sex out of the deal. Saturday at a party, she was flirting with me. She might want me again.

I DO NOT have feelings for her. I just want to fu#k her b/c i never got to before. I do have another girl I'm dating but she's about to move 2 hrs away so I won't get ass as often as I'd like. I really dont have feelings for her either, she's just hot. My ex lives close and is convenient. If I could make her think I want a relationship again, and fu#k the crap out of her it would be awesome. More like revenge sex or something, lol. I'm going to continue djing and look for girls, but I want to try this.

Do you guys think I'm out of my mind for attempting something like this ? What are your thoughts.

I can't believe you were in a 2 month relationship and didn't Fvck her. I know someone going to say well it takes time but 2 months damn.....Just what did you do that whole time? Blue Ball Central or what?